05/06/2026
𝗗𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗝𝘂𝗮𝗻𝘀,
Hello. I'm writing this at 11:10 AM pero this happened 10 or 15 mins ago.
My parents are out for a week and kami lang ng akong siblings ang nabilin sa balay. We don't go along with each other. Sometimes we do, but most often, we don't. We have no similarities, wala mi common interests, we dislike each other's hobbies pero we just let them be.
The main agenda of this story is that, kaning akong sister (14), told my brother (20) about this person who went abroad for work. She said na "Tua na syas [abroad] pero Filipina ghapon ang na uyab" mao ni akong first *ding* sa akong dalunggan kay just because diay na naa nas gawas sa bansa ang usa ka tao, need na taga didto ang ma partner?
Ikaduha, our argument started when she said something about him posting his pictures online, mga gala niya, mga laag laag. Then I told her na "Just let him be since na naa na s'yay naabot." She responded "Unsa ba diay iyang tuyo ddto? Trabaho or laag?" Then I responded na if it were me who worked abroad then mag post online sa akong mga agendas sa life, mga everywhere laag nako, what would she say?
Then she told me "Wajud ka kasabot sa akong pasabot." I told her "okay, pasabta kos imong point". She just replied "Aynalang, waman ka kasabot sa akong gustong ipasabot"
She's implicitly implying na arogante tong tao na to kay nakagawas rag bansa, naga ing ana na dayon ang lifestyle. That's the point nga e. Lalabas tau ng bansa kasi para mas gumanda ang daloy ng buhay natin.
The main thought nako is that
(1) When you're working abroad, live that life. Dili ra sig work. Ug naay time mag laag, ilaag. Take pictures, e post, whatever, basta seize the moment.
(2) Dili g**o ta mag istoryag bahin sa usa ka tao ug dili sa nato lantawon ang atong situation s akaron. Adto na g**o ta mag istorya if naa najud ta sa ing ato na standpoint.
This is just a rant kay wakoy ma openan bahin ani.