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Her POV, Quezon City (2025)

07/10/2023

DON’T TAKE HER LOVE FOR GRANTED.❤️

if she is giving you too much attention just consider yourself lucky because maybe she loves you so much that she doesn’t want anyone else to take her place in your life.❤️

If she visit you all the time, calls you, helps you, care for you and give you attention more than she gives herself and family, don’t think she’s desperate. She’s doing that because you are the only one in her heart.❤️

If she cries for you, don’t think she is weak but consider yourself lucky that she thinks you are worth her precious tears.🥺

If she is jealous of the other women around you, don’t think she is insecure but she doesn’t want to see anyone else to be in your arms.😊

If a woman says sorry to you even though it was not her fault, don’t think she is afraid of losing you but she considers her relationship worth another chance and she doesn’t want anyone else to have your heart..🥰❤️

My brother, respect and value what you have now because once it is gone, you'll never see it again.🙅🏽‍♂️

To your continuous growth and wellness.

💝📌💯❤️

26/08/2023

I know it hurts.

It’s a very strange feeling how someone can be in your life for months or even years and then one day ... all of a sudden not be there anymore.

Maybe the relationship ended on good terms.... or maybe it was completely catastrophic.

Either way .... it’s so bizarre how relationships can change so vast and rapidly.

And you know what .... you may not be at peace with what happened between the two of you ... and thats perfectly fine.

Sometimes the end of a relationship can literally be one of the hardest things we go through in life.

I want you to know it’s okay that your heart still hurts because of what happened.

You have made alot of memories with this person.

And these memories that you have made is something you can’t erase no matter how hard you try.

Whether you like it or not, they are a part of your story.

I know looking on these memories can be hard, and you may wish you could forget them.

But instead of forgetting, maybe we should try to focus on what came from the relationship.

You two joined paths for a particular reason.

Maybe you walked through some of the hardest times together.

Maybe you understood each other in a way no one else ever did.

Maybe you encouraged one another to be strong or to embrace who you genuinely were as a person.

Or maybe your relationship with them opened your eyes to what you truly needed in your life.

Regardless of what the reasoning was, it’s okay to acknowledge that .... that person meant a lot to you.

And it's okay if they still do.

It’s also okay that they aren’t in your life anymore.

What alot of people dont understand is, not every relationship we encounter will last a lifetime.

You shouldn't be lingering in the past questioning why everything happened the way it did.

What you need to do .... is to take what you've learned from that relationship and move forward in your life.

Knowing there are other relationships that will give you exactly what you've always dreamed of and more.

I need you to know that you're not going to feel this way forever.

You will continue to move forward and you will continue to grow with everyday that passes.

Take my advice and remember ....

Sometimes the people you wanted as part of your story, are only meant to be a chapter.

~ Cody Bret

17/08/2023

Questioning your worth will never help you find your real worth. I know that some people in your life will make you feel worthless. But gentlemen and ladies, the way you treat yourself is more important than the way other people treat you. Some people might say bad things to you, or they might give you reasons to love yourself less, but please don't lose sight of your worth. Just because someone can't treat you right doesn't mean you have to question your worth. Know that you are precious. You are more than what they think you are. You are more than the number of scars that you hide after hurting yourself. You are more than the nights that you spent hating yourself for who you are. You are more than the brutal words that you receive from toxic people. And you know what? You are more than enough.

You cannot convince people to treat you properly if they can't see your worth. But you can always convince yourself that you deserve better. You cannot please everyone in your life, but always remember that it will never make you less as a person. When you start loving yourself, you'll realize that the criticism of others is not really important. It doesn't matter what people think about you, but it does matter what you think about yourself. It doesn't matter if some people don't appreciate you, but it does matter if you appreciate yourself.

You are not supposed to be your own enemy. You are supposed to be the one who will love yourself on the days where some people make you feel unlovable. You are supposed to be the one who will accept yourself when everybody else makes you feel so unwanted. You have to learn how to embrace yourself because self-love is powerful. When you love yourself, you will know your worth. And when you know your worth, no one can ever make you feel worthless. So start loving yourself today, give yourself the things that you deserve, and always remember that no matter what kind of person you become, you will always be worthy.

17/08/2023

I recieved a message today from a friend that asked if "I was controlling in a relationship".

My answer was simple ...

If I date someone I will never control them. They can do whatever their heart desires, but their actions will show me how much they respect our relationship.

17/08/2023

How to protect your inner peace…

1. Cut off toxic people in your life. Although it is not easy to do it, for you to have peace of mind, you have to.

2. Distance yourself from people who only give out negative thoughts and energy. They will never help you grow.

3. Choose your battles wisely. Not everything requires your energy and reaction.

4. Be careful in letting people be a part of your life. Not everyone is a friend.

5. Unwind. When everything starts to feel tiring, go on a vacation. Take a break. You deserve it.

6. Learn when to walk away. If it is no longer giving you peace of mind, it is not worth it.

7. Always make time for yourself. Being alone feels therapeutic at times.

8. Have less time for social media and more of starting a new hobby. Be productive with your time.

9. Be adaptable to change. Always brace yourself for endless possibilities.

10. Knowing your triggers is your responsibility. Not all the time people will adjust for you.

13/08/2023

Never settle for someone who treats you like a backup plan. Someone who puts you second instead of making you a first priority.

Never settle for someone who picks and chooses when to answer your texts. Someone who makes you wait for a reply.

Never settle for someone who tells you how much you mean to them, but never proves it. Someone who says all of the right things, but never does the right things.

You should never be treated like a second choice.
You should never be a part of the background.

An afterthought.
You should be the first and only person they think about when they wake up in the morning.
You should be the person they can't wait to see, the person they're eager to text back.

Wait for someone who shows up on time. Someone who follows through on their promises.

Wait for someone who calls you up to deliver good news, because you're the first person they thought of telling. Someone who makes an effort to include you in their life.

Wait for someone who has an actual interest in what you have to say, not someone who wants you to be quiet so they can talk about their day. Not someone who is secretly thinking about other things while you speak.

Wait for someone who makes it clear they care about you, that they're willing to commit to you.

Please, never settle for someone who puts you second, because you deserve to be a first priority. YOU DESERVE GOOD LOVE. ☝🏻❤️

13/08/2023

Make an impact.

It doesn't matter how busy you think you are, you're never to busy to show a little effort to the person you genuinely care about.

If you take some time throughout the day to send her a text saying something like ..... "I just wanted to let you know I'm pretty busy today but I can't stop thinking about you and how blessed I truly am to have you in my life."

It will make an impact.

Or even if you wait till 10 o'clock at night when she falls peacefully asleep and you decide to quietly get up and go sit down at the kitchen table to write her a hand written letter about how much she has changed your life for the better and explain to her in your own words how there is nothing in this world that could separate the two of you because of how immensely connected you are to her.

It will make an impact.

Or you could even surprise her on a Saturday afternoon by going to a secluded spot in the country with a picnic basket and a blanket and making your way to down by a beautiful lake where the scenery is breath-taking, while you both enjoy each other's favorite snacks while talking about your future goals with one another.

Small things like that will drastically make an impact on the person you’re in a relationship with .... because it tells the person you care about, no matter how busy you get ... you will always find a way to make time for her.

~ Cody Bret

03/04/2023

How to love a man.

UNDERSTAND. He will never be perfect. At some point he will be inconsistent. Sometimes he will be impatient. Sometimes it will be hard for him to handle your mood swings. He gets angry too. His mood changes as well.

FREEDOM. Give him the freedom to do the things that he likes. Do not box him. Do not choke him in the neck. The truth is, if he really loves you, he will never do things that will hurt you. He has a life to live so do not take that away from him. You are not his world. You are just a part of it.

RECIPROCATE. Make efforts for him too. Ask him how his day went. Ask him what went wrong. Love him hard as well. Be patient with him too.

RESPECT. You have to respect his choices and decisions. Give him respect that he deserves.

AFFECTION. Show him that you care. Wrap him with warm hugs. Show to him that you are always there for him.

ATTENTION. Like you, he needs your attention too. He needs reassurance as well that he is the only one for you. Do not give him reasons to doubt you.

There will never be a perfect man. At some point, you will get disappointed and upset because he did not become the man you expect him to be. But because you love him you accept every bits of him. If he is worth the risk, keep him.

Sometimes we want to be understood so much, that we forget to understand men as well.

03/04/2023

—— to my favorite person,

As my partner, I understand that you have your busy days too. I respect that. All I want is for you to keep me updated. I’d rather hearing “Babe, I’m busy, will text you back later.” than getting ignored for hours without knowing any reason. You don’t have to keep me company all the time. We have stuffs to do and responsibilities to take. But remember this, I love you so much and always keep yourself safe and healthy.

24/03/2023

- Your family doesn't know how much difficulties and pressure you go through in your daily life or in your job.

- And your work doesn't know the circumstances of your life and your home.

- Your colleagues, your friends, and loved ones will not understand the size of the new and old responsibilities that are above you.

- And your partner is always expecting unconditional love and support from you, he wont underatand the amount of pressure you go through no matter how much you talk and explain to him.

No one will understand what you're really going through and they most likely don't appreciate efforts.

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