14/02/2026
"Individuals who are in love had the power to let love grow or let love die – it is a choice one had to face when love is not the love he/she expected." (PADILLA-RUMBAUA vs. RUMBAUA, G.R. No. 166738, August 14, 2009)
In the instant case, the wife sought to have her marriage declared void, claiming her husband was psychologically incapacitated because he refused to live with her, failed to support her, blamed her for his mother’s death, represented himself as single, and later lived with another woman.💔💔💔
The Supreme Court denied the petition, ruling that she failed to prove psychological incapacity. Under Article 36 of the Family Code, psychological incapacity must be serious, existing at the time of marriage, and incurable.
The Court held that the acts of the husband, while blameworthy, do not rise to the level of psychological incapacity required by law. They must be distinguished from mere difficulty, refusal, or neglect in the performance of marital obligations. The Court reiterated that it is not enough to show unwillingness or failure to comply with marital duties; there must be proof of a disabling psychological condition rooted in the respondent’s personality that effectively incapacitated him from fulfilling those obligations.
While the husband’s actions were hurtful and wrong, broken promises, emotional immaturity, neglect, or even infidelity do not automatically make a marriage void without proof of a serious psychological disorder.💔
My personal take: Love isn’t built on fate alone. Yes, crossing paths may feel meant to be—touched by faith, timing, or destiny—but what happens after that is no longer in the hands of fate. Love grows or fades by choice. Two people in love always have the power to nurture it, fight for it, or let it go. In the end, love stays not because it was written in the stars, but because someone chooses it, every single day.