25/05/2025
No matter how emotional their story is don’t touch your savings.
That money represents your discipline, your late nights, your skipped pleasures, your silent sacrifices. It’s your backup plan when life hits unexpectedly. It’s the bridge between where you are and where you want to go.
If you keep dipping into it for every guilt trip, every emergency that isn’t yours, or every person who mismanaged their life, you’ll have nothing left when you need it most
Help if you can but only from your surplus, never your core.
Being kind doesn’t mean being foolish.
Being generous doesn’t mean being reckless.
Being a man doesn’t mean bleeding yourself dry.
Real men build stability. And savings are sacred. Protect them.
Sure! Here’s a simplified version with clear examples:
P.S.
This advice is for when people ask for help with things they should handle themselves.
For example:
– A friend wants money because they overspent on shopping.
– A relative needs “urgent” help for the third time this month but just bought a new phone.
– Someone pressures you with guilt for not helping, even though it’s not your responsibility.
This advice is NOT for real emergencies.
For example:
– Your parents need money for urgent medical treatment.
– Your child needs support for school or health.
– A true friend is in trouble for the first time and has no one else to turn to.
In short:
Help from your extra, not from your essentials.
