01/09/2025
One afternoon, while Randy and Sydy were bonding and enjoying father-and-son time, I took the chance to have my “me time.” For me, that meant reading. I quietly sat in the corner of the sofa while they were on the floor, laughing and working on a puzzle together. They didn’t notice me until they suddenly heard me crying.
Sydy quickly ran to me and asked what happened. I explained that I was simply moved by what I was reading. They said they were shocked because they didn’t even realize I was reading; they thought I was just scrolling through my phone and came across some sad news. So, I read aloud to them a passage from Ellen G. White that had touched my heart.
🙏 Christ says to man, "You are mine. I have bought you. You are now only a rough stone, but if you will place yourself in My hands, I will polish you, and the luster with which you shall shine will bring honor to My name. No man shall pluck you out of My hand. I will make you My peculiar treasure. On My coronation day, you will be a jewel in My crown of rejoicing."
🙏 The divine Worker spends little time on worthless material. Only the precious jewels does He polish after the similitude of a palace, cutting away all the rough edges. This process is severe and trying; it hurts human pride. Christ cuts deep into the experience that man in his self-sufficiency has regarded as complete, and takes away self-uplifting from the character. He cuts away the surplus surface, and putting the stone to the polishing wheel, presses it close, that all roughness may be worn away. Then, holding the jewel up to the light, the Master sees in it a reflection of Himself, and He pronounces it worthy of a place in His casket. Ellen G. White, The Review and Herald, December 19, 1907.
A few days later, as we were walking home, Sydy picked up a stone from the roadside. When we got home, he carefully washed it and dried it with a paper towel. At first, I thought, Naku! Dagdag na naman yon sa collection nyang basura. Later that night, as I was getting ready for bed, he came to me with the stone in his hand. With a sweet smile, he said, “Mommy, this stone is like you. It has rough edges.”
My heart melted. In that moment, I realized he had been listening all along to my conversation with his dad, to the words I had read, and to the message behind them.
❤ My takeaway: I am blessed with people who love me despite my rough edges. They embrace my imperfections, stand with me at my lowest, and never judge my struggles. Through them, I felt God’s love.