Reflective Realms

24/10/2025

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Hindi naman kabawasan sa iyong pagkatao kung pipiliin mong maging mabuting tao.

You’ll never really know what someone is going through—what pain they’re carrying quietly, what kind of day they’re trying to survive. That’s why kindness will always matter. Be the reason someone feels seen, safe, and a little less alone in this world.

04/10/2025

just let them.

04/10/2025

🚩🏴‍☠️

04/10/2025

Delete negative people

04/10/2025

TOXIC PEOPLE YOU SHOULD JUST GET RID OF:

1.Those who spread negativity.
2.Those who criticize you all the time.
3.Those who are JEALOUS.
4.Those who play the victim.
5.Those who are self-centered.

04/10/2025

Toxic people are experts at twisting the truth to suit their narrative. They never share the full story—only the parts that paint them as the victim while making others look like the villain. This manipulation allows them to gain sympathy, avoid accountability, and shift the blame onto those they have wronged.

When conflicts arise, a toxic person will carefully select which details to share, leaving out the parts where they were at fault. If they were disrespectful, manipulative, or dishonest, they won’t mention it. Instead, they will exaggerate your reaction, making it seem unreasonable or cruel. They frame situations in a way that makes others question your actions while reinforcing their victimhood.

This one-sided storytelling is a powerful tool. It influences how others perceive you, turning friends, family, or even colleagues against you. The goal is to isolate you and gain control over the narrative.

If you find yourself constantly defending your actions while a toxic person plays the victim, take a step back. You don’t have to prove yourself to those who only hear one side of the story. Recognising this tactic is the first step to protecting yourself from emotional manipulation and reclaiming your truth.

CTTO

How to leave your past behind and create your true self again.

02/08/2025

I hope you end up with someone who is sure about you,
Someone who is brave enough to show you the real meaning of love,
Someone who knows what your heart truly deserves and never let you beg for it,
Someone who doesn’t judge you,
Someone who understands you even when you can’t put your feelings into words,
Someone who answers all the questions running in your mind and never let you doubt their love for you,

Love is beautiful when it’s with the right person,
Choose someone adds peace to your life.

20/07/2025

I’m teaching myself to pull back when I start to notice my place in someone’s life.

It’s not always easy—especially when they mean so much to me—but I’ve learned that holding on too tightly only leaves me feeling out of place. Sometimes, no matter how deeply I care, I have to accept that I don’t hold the same space in their heart. And while that realization stings, I remind myself that it’s not a reflection of my worth but simply the way people are wired differently.

Not everyone loves the way you do. Not everyone sees relationships with the same depth or tenderness you offer. I’ve had to stop expecting my heart to be mirrored in others. It’s a tough lesson, but it’s freeing, too. It teaches me to cherish those who truly see me, while quietly letting go of the need to force connections that aren’t meant to be.

After all, your heart is meant to be protected, not stretched thin trying to earn a place in someone else’s world.

— LJ Guzman

06/07/2025

⭐️🍁🪐 The older you get,
the less it's about trust issues and more about pattern recognition. You've seen it all before, and you know exactly how it plays out. People don't always lie, but patterns never do. When something feels off, fake, forced, sneaky, or just plain wrong! IT IS. Your gut picks up on the truth way before your mind can explain it. Stop falling for apologies. Start believing the patterns.

02/07/2025

Maybe June didn’t come with wins you could post.
Maybe it felt more like surviving than thriving.
And maybe, just maybe, no one saw how heavy it was to keep going.

But I see you.
Pagod ka man, hindi ka bumitaw.
Tahimik ka mang lumaban, nandito ka pa rin.

This is your gentle reminder:
You’re allowed to be proud of the strength it took to simply stay.

So before June ends —
thank you for holding on.
Thank you for being here.

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