12/06/2026
BEA Borres and her Ex Boy🤍😢
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"Ready naman siya maging father, but he wasn't ready to be a partner. Parang hindi niya kayang panindigan din ako. And honestly, sobra akong nahurt."
"Bea, as single mother at 23, hindi madali 'yon, 'di ba?" -Karen D
"Hindi po. Hindi madali, but sinu-survive ko naman. I'm alive. Life goes on. Wala akong choice but to live, e" -Bea Borres
"Were you prepared to be a mother?" -Karen D
"No, I'm really not. Until now, I can't still process it yet. But wala na akong choice, e." -Bea Borres
"Ano ba ang nangyari sa inyong mag boyfriend? Why didn't it lead to marriage?" -Karen D
"Ako naman, honestly, although I'm the type of person na date to marry, people assume kasi—I think it's the way I present myself and the way that I'm so open, they assume kasi na malandi ako. Na one night stand girl ako. But no, I'm not." -Bea Borres
"But at the same time, I'm also parang hindi ko kayang mag settle. Parang palagi akong naghahanap ng mali. I don't know. I think maybe it's the Capricorn in me. Wala namang cheating, pero pinagpalit lang ako agad" -Bea Borres
"On and off kami and then were trying to fix our relationship tapos bigla akong nabuntis. And I expected too much. Sobra talaga akong nag expect sa kaniya. Like, I would list down notes of what I wanted from him. Parang nagdemand ako and nag-expect ako kasi nabuntis ako, e. Parang, "alagaan mo ako, nanay ako ng anak mo" gano'n ang nangyari" -Bea Borres
"No'ng sinabi mong buntis ka, sinabi niya ba na magpakasal kayo? Na may plano kayo? -Karen D
"Ayon 'yong nainis ako kasi nag ddemand siya ng time para sa sarili niya. So, doon ako mas mahirapan kasi we should be doing this together. Parang napressure siya kasi tinanong ko siya kung anong plano niya kasi wala, e. Wala." -Bea Borres
"Nag stepped up naman siya and kinuha naman niya 'yong responsibilities. Ready naman siya maging father, but he wasn't ready to be a partner. Parang hindi niya kayang panindigan din ako. And honestly, sobra akong nahurt. Sobrang nasaktan 'yong pagkababae ko roon" -Bea Borres
"Wala man lang, "can we fight for our relationship?" Kahit man lang for the baby, wala. It was, "I wanna be there for the baby, but I also want to enjoy my life." And I really can't blame him kasi we're young, e. You know, women mature faster than men. Kaya okay, sige. Pero sad lang ako sa part na he knows where I lived, it's so easy to send fruits, pero wala akong natanggap na kahit ano" -Bea Borres
"So I feel like I was robbed of my pregnancy experience, and super talagang nahurt 'yong pagkababae ko. But it's okay. I'm trying to heal. I'm trying to let go even though it's hard. Ngayon na lumabas 'yong baby namin, he's trying. Not for our relationship, but for our child. Of course it hurts kasi minahal ko siya e. It was so hard and it hurts so much" -Bea Borres
"If you look back, was it love or lust?" -Karen D
"Honestly, I think it was lust. Feeling ko naman may love, but looking back, it's lust kasi it all happened so fast. Walang discernment, e" -Bea Borres
"Do you want your ex to be involved in your child's life?" -Karen D
"He's actually involved. He's a financial, so kahit maging single mom ako, okay lang. Sabi ko sa kaniya, "are you sure you want to be a part of my daughter's life?", sabi niya, "yeah." So sabi ko, "Okay. Then pay for everything." So parang grateful pa rin ako sa part na 'yon." -Bea Borres
"So, you have not forgiven him? You are not over him?" -Karen D
"I'm not over with what he did, but I'm over him. If kaya mong hindi makita anak mo, okay. You can stop giving money, and I'll just cut my connections with you guys. Because I'm choosing myself the way he chose himself." -Bea Borres
"I will love myself and I will make sure that my daughter sees that I love myself so much. So that she can also love herself, she can look up to me, and she will have standards of what love is supposed to be." -Bea Borres
Kaya to all single moms out there, you are stronger than you think. I know it's not easy🫂.
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