Bits and Pieces

23/03/2024

One day you will realized that happiness was never about finishing your degree, finding a job with high salary, or being in a relationship with someone you can consider as your other half. Happiness was never about exceeding all the expectations on you and following the footprints of your family when it comes to a certain career. It was never being someone that you idolized and it's not all about fame and popularity. Soon, you will realized that true happiness lies within the boundaries of your heart, when you follow your passion, when you live your life based on your own terms without following the orders of someone, when you step outside your comfort zone and discover things that you're not aware that you're capable of. It's all about embracing your progress without criticizing your productivity, It's all about your unexpected smile when you watch the sunsets. It's all about embracing the real you rather than imitating and comparing yourself to other people. You will understand it one day that you can be happy alone, happiness comes from within and you cannot find it on other people. True happiness lies within the boundaries of your heart, it will happen and you will not even notice it.

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02/07/2023

02/07/2023

10 BRUTAL TRUTHS THAT EVERYONE NEEDS TO KNOW.

1. You're going to die and you have no idea when.

Stop pretending that you're invincible. Acknowledge the fact of your own mortality, and then start structuring your life in a more meaningful way.

2. Your material wealth won't make you a better or happier person.

Even if you're one of the lucky ones who achieves his or her materialistic dreams, money only amplifies that which was already present.

3. Your obsession with finding happiness is what prevents its attainment.

Happiness is always present in your life--it's just a matter of connecting to it and allowing it to flow through you that's challenging.

4. Donating money does less than donating time.

Giving your time is a way to change your perception and create a memory for yourself and others that will last forever.

5. You can't make everyone happy, and if you try, you'll lose yourself.

Stop trying to please, and start respecting your values, principles, and autonomy.

6. Your achievements and successes won't matter on your deathbed.

When your time has come to transition from this reality, you won't be thinking about that raise; you'll be thinking about the relationships you've made--so start acting accordingly.

7. Your talent means nothing without consistent effort and practice.

Some of the most talented people in the world never move out from their parent's basement.

8. Nobody cares how difficult your life is, and you are the author of your life's story.

Stop looking for people to give you sympathy and start creating the life story you want to read.

9. Investing in yourself isn't selfish. It's the most worthwhile thing you can do.

You have to put on your own gas mask to save the person sitting right next to you.

10. Time is your most valuable asset--you need to prioritize how you spend it.

You have the power and responsibility to decide what you do with the time you have, so choose wisely...
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22/05/2023

READ THIS INTERESTING SHORT STORY

Franz Kafka, who never married and had no children, was walking through a park one day when he met a girl who was crying because she had lost her favorite doll. She and Kafka searched for the doll unsuccessfully.

Kafka told her to meet him there the next day and they would come back to look for her.

The next day, when they had not yet found the doll, Kafka gave the girl a letter "written" by the doll saying "please don't cry. I took a trip to see the world. I will write to you about my adventures."

Thus began a story which continued until the end of Kafka's life.

During their meetings, Kafka read the letters of the doll carefully written with adventures and conversations that the girl found adorable.

Finally, Kafka brought back the doll (he bought one) that had returned.

"It doesn't look like my doll at all," said the girl.

Kafka handed her another letter in which the doll wrote: "my travels have changed me." The little girl hugged the new doll and brought the doll with her to her happy home.

A year later Kafka died.

Many years later, the now-adult girl found a letter inside the doll. In the tiny letter signed by Kafka it was written:

"Everything you love will probably be lost, but in the end, love will return in another way."

Embrace change. It's inevitable for growth. Together we can shift pain into wonder and love, but it is up to us to consciously and intentionally create that connection.

Book: Franz Kafka: The Complete Stories

22/05/2023

THE BANANA BOY

Moral Story Of The Day.

A frail old man stopped a young boy carrying a bunch of bananas, and said to him.

"Can I get some bananas for free? I'm really tired and hungry"

The young boy dropped his bunch of bananas, pulled three off it and offered them to the old man.

But the man frowned his face, as if they were some pieces of crap.

"Oh, no! They aren't ripe!" he grumbled. "How I'm I supposed to eat these?"

The boy was taken aback by the old man's attitude, but said humbly.

"I'm so sorry sir... Uhm, I've got some ripe bananas at home. Why not wait here while I get you some?"

"Hurry up then" the old man said.

The young boy carried his banana bunch and dashed off. He returned shortly with three big ripe bananas. He smiled as he handed them to the old man.

But the ungrateful old man had a look of discontent flashing across his face. He wasn't impressed at all.

"Good grief! Why would you bring me over ripped bananas...? Boy, you should know I'm an old man and these will upset my stomach"

The boy became confused and worried about the nagging old man. He said.

"I feel sorry that I'm unable to please you sir. But what else would I do?"

"Just bring back the unripe bananas. I'll have to keep them until tomorrow. Hurry up, my legs are hurting" he croaked.

In the hope of pleasing him, the young boy left in a hurry. He came back in few minutes with the first bananas. But the old man became angry.

"You really are a slow kid! I've lost my cravings already and I no longer need bananas. Just go with your bananas!"

The boy shuddered. But he was surprised at what the old man did next. His wrinkled face broke into a smile, then he tapped his shoulder and said calmly.

"Boy, the most valuable lessons in life cannot be taught, they must be experienced. You should know that all the bananas you presented to me were perfect but my ungrateful attitude was an act I put on to teach you a valuable lesson of life, something I learnt too late. In life, people are like that and they will make you feel like you're not good enough. It is important to know that you can not please everyone no matter how hard you try, and it can run havoc in your life, rob your peace of mind and the courage to follow your goals and dreams. Even if you lie on the ground for people to walk on you, they still will complain that you aren't flat enough. So, don't live your life to please anyone. Be yourself and do what you know is right"

Author: Chima_Dickson Official.

16/05/2023

I hope that someday, I'II look at the sky with happy eyes. When I'm finally fine, not sad, hurt, or lost. When the day is filled with peace, quietness, and good moments. When I find my right place in this world.

Just hope that one day, l'il live the life of my dreams.”

15/05/2023

"A Lady asked an old street vendor: "How much do you sell your eggs for?" The old man replied "0.50¢ an egg, madam.” The Lady responde, “I'll take 6 eggs for $2.00 or I'm leaving.” The old salesman replied, “Buy them at the price you want, Madam. This is a good start for me because I haven't sold a single egg today and I need this to live.”

She bought her eggs at a bargain price and left with the feeling that she had won. She got into her fancy car and went to a fancy restaurant with her friend. She and her friend ordered what they wanted. They ate a little and left a lot of what they had asked for. So they paid the bill, which was $150. The ladies gave $200 and told the fancy restaurant owner to keep the change as a tip.

This story might seem quite normal to the owner of the fancy restaurant, but very unfair to the egg seller. The question it raises is;
Why do we always need to show that we have power when we buy from the needy?
And why are we generous to those who don't even need our generosity?

We once read somewhere that a father used to buy goods from poor people at a high price, even though he didn't need the things. Sometimes he paid more for them. His children were amazed. One day they asked him "why are you doing this dad?" The father replied: "It's charity wrapped in dignity.”

I know that most of you will not share this message, but if you are one of the people who have taken the time to read this far...
Then this message of attempted "humanisation" will have gone one step further in the right direction."
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14/05/2023

WHEN YOU THOUGHT I WASN'T LOOKING

When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator, and I immediately wanted to paint another one.

When you thought wasn't looking I saw you feed a stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind to animals.

When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you make my favorite cake for me, and I learned that the little things can be the special things in life.

When you thought I wasn't looking I heard you say a prayer, and I knew that there is a God I could always talk to, and I learned to trust in Him.

When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you make a meal and take it to a friend who was sick, and I learned that we all have to help take care of each other.

When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you take care of our house and everyone in it, and I learned we have to take care of what we are given.

When you thought I wasn't looking I saw how you handled your responsibilities, even when you didn't feel good, and I learned that I would have to be responsible when I grow up.

When you thought I wasn't looking I saw tears come from your eyes, and I learned that sometimes things hurt, but it's all right to cry.

When you thought I wasn't looking I saw that you cared, and I wanted to be everything that I could be..

When you thought I wasn't looking I learned most of life's lessons that I need to know to be a good and productive person when I grow up.

When you thought I wasn't looking I looked at you and wanted to say,’ Thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasn't looking.'

I AM SENDING THIS TO ALL OF THE PEOPLE I KNOW WHO DO SO MUCH FOR OTHERS, BUT THINK THAT NO ONE EVER SEES. LITTLE EYES SEE A LOT...

Each of us (parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle, teacher, friend) influences the life of a child...

13/05/2023

- Your family does not know the size of the difficulties and the pressure that you go through in your daily life or in your work.
- And your work does not know the circumstances of your life and home.
- Your friends, loved ones, and close ones will not understand the size of the new and old responsibilities that are above your shoulders.
- And your partner is always waiting for love and support from you, and he will not understand the amount of pressure you are going through, no matter how much you speak and explain to him.
• In conclusion, no one feels you except yourself.. and no one will understand what you are going through and will not appreciate it.
Continue.. Struggle.. Fight.. Be your own support and first motivator.