04/08/2025
I firmly believe in Toni Gonzagaโs words when she said, "Your husband will become what you see in him. If you see a king, he will become a king. But if you always see his weaknesses, he will remain small in your eyes."
And thatโs the quiet truth most people overlook.
A man doesn't just grow from success or applause, he grows from belief.
Because there's power in the way a woman sees her man.
When she sees a king, he learns to carry himself like one. Not because heโs perfect, but because someone he loves believes heโs worth becoming.
But if what he hears every day are reminders of where he falls short, if the one place he runs to feels more like a courtroom than a refuge, how can he rise?
Love was never just about romance, itโs about vision.
And faith.
And grace.
Your words are seeds.
Your tone, the water.
And the way you look at him? Thatโs the sun.
So speak life. Call him king.
Not because he already wears the crown, but because your belief might be the reason he learns how to.