ZOHA

09/08/2025

08/08/2025

THIS IS THE REALITY NOW. A teacher with 30 years of experience says she’d rather work at McDonald’s than go back into a classroom. And to be honest, I get it.

Students today are not just misbehaving — they’re out of control. No respect, no manners, no fear of consequences. And worst of all? They’re not sorry.

Parents are not doing their job anymore. They give their kids everything — expensive phones, gadgets, freedom — but they forget to teach them how to talk to people with respect.

They don’t teach their children how to say “sorry” when they’re wrong. Instead, they defend them blindly, even when the child is clearly at fault.

Now kids think: “If I’m paying, I can say whatever I want. I can insult anyone — even my teacher.”

This is dangerous. Very dangerous.

Teachers are tired. We’re mentally drained. We came into this profession to educate, guide, and help students grow. But now? We’re dealing with insults, backtalk, and pure arrogance — every single day.

If this continues, not only will we lose good teachers — we will lose the next generation.

And sadly, the fault won’t be in schools. It will be in homes — in parenting that never happened."**

— A Pakistani Teacher Who Still Cares

19/07/2025

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06/07/2025

Significance of 10th Moharram

12/06/2025

"They walked so we could crawl — and now they hate that we learned to fly."

There’s a strange breed born between 1980–1990. Married for 10+ years but still trying to compete with Gen Z like it’s a race. Not leading or guiding— just projecting.

They want us to “compromise” like they think they did (but actually didn't). But truth is — they had no ambition, no internet, no exposure. They glorify their “struggles” like it wasn’t just low standards.

Now they want us to marry the same kind of partners — even though we’re educated, self-aware, emotionally intelligent. If we resist? “High expectations.”

They tell us to accept toxic jobs, toxic people, toxic patterns. “Sab kartay hain.” No. We’re here to break cycles — not repeat them.

But what they don’t see is the trauma they cause.
We’re tired of being guilt-tripped.
Tired of being told “humne bhi saha tha.”
No, you settled. We’re just choosing not to.

They call our standards rebellion.
Our confidence? Attitude.
Our healing? Drama.

And while they preach simplicity, they’re more obsessed with filters, fake birthdays, TikTok trends than we are.
“Main 35 ka lagta hoon?” Bhai, liver 43 ka hai.

They live like they invented iPhones — even though they were born in the Nokia 3310 era.

Their biggest issue? They can't accept that Gen Z doesn’t want their life.
We don’t care about complexion, weight, wrinkles.
We believe in live and let live.
But they have to interfere — in homes, offices, rishtas.

They’re the biggest hurdle for our growth — both personal and professional. And maybe they’ll only understand when their own kids face the same.

Dear 80s–90s aunties & uncles:
We’re not you.
We don’t want to be you.
And we’re not sorry for that.

10/06/2025

|| The Impossible Standard of Marriage ||

They want her soft-spoken, fair-skinned, wise like an elder,
Pretty like a doll, but cooks like a caterer.
Educated with a degree, yet never questions back —
Hijab on point, but still stylish on the ‘gram.

This is what the rishta market sounds like these days.
One-sided interviews — no questions allowed from the girl’s side.
They walk in like royalty, sit like judges, and leave without a trace.
Not even a basic courtesy text.

And the girl’s family? Just left sitting there,
Still wondering: “Was the chai not warm enough or is her skin tone too warm?”

You know what’s funnier?
Some of them do Istikhara before the girl's parents even meet the boy.

And then came back saying “We’re sorry, we saw a sign.”
A sign of what, exactly?
You didn’t even let the girl's parents see the guy’s face, let alone his nature.

Why is it always the girl's side being scanned under a microscope,
While the boy’s side stays behind a curtain of assumptions?

Does anyone ever ask if the groom-to-be can hold a mature conversation?
If he knows what responsibility even means?

If he can afford to live without clinging to his mother’s apron at age 30?

No.
Because “Larkay walay hain, unka haq banta hai sawal karna.”

And still — the girl must be everything:
Beautiful, chaste, house-trained, degree-holder, sabr queen, degh queen, akhlaaq queen,
With just enough modern edge to not be “boring,” but not enough to be “too bold.”

They want her to check all the boxes.
But won’t even give her the right to tick one.

No chance to reject. No chance to ask.
She’s expected to sit there with a forced smile —
While they decide if she’s worthy of their son,
Who, let’s be real, might still be figuring out how to iron his own shalwar.

This isn't marriage.
This is madness.
And everyone’s too used to the noise to hear how wrong it sounds.

We were told marriage is half of our deen.
But no one told us that in this society, it’s also half your dignity —
Lost in the process of being measured, judged, and priced like a product.

So here’s the real question:
When will we start asking the same questions back?
And when will they be ready to answer?

09/06/2025

🎭 “Wrapped Heads, Exposed Souls”

Ever looked at something and felt uneasy, but couldn’t explain why?

Like you’re scrolling, and you see girls with scarves on — captions full of “Alhamdulillah” and “modesty vibes” — but something doesn’t sit right. The clothes are tight, chest shaped, makeup on point, poses like they’re made for a fashion shoot. And yet, it’s all labeled hijab.

You pause for a second and think…
Is this what hijab is now?

Truth is — no, it’s not. But the world has dressed it up so well, most girls don’t even realize what they’re wearing isn’t hijab. It’s just a look. A trend. They’ve made it so soft, so aesthetic, so "modest-but-cute" that it feels halal by default. But just because it’s pretty doesn’t mean it’s pure.

This didn’t happen on accident either.
There’s a reason behind it.

There’s a saying: “If you want to destroy a nation, introduce it to revealing fashion and entertainment.” That’s exactly what they’ve done — just with a twist. They didn’t strip our faith. They redesigned it. Gave it colors, filters, and called it empowerment. Now modesty itself has become a performance. A brand.

And here’s the heavy part —
This so-called “modest fashion” is more tempting than full-on Western outfits. Because it hides behind deen. It hints, it attracts, but still says “I'm covered.” And that’s the trap — it makes people look, but still lets you feel righteous.

But real hijab? It wasn’t sent to beautify you in public.
It was sent to protect you from being seen in a certain way at all.

We’ve swapped honor for attention. The shield for style.

And if we keep clapping for it, calling it progress… we’ll forget what hijab even means.
We’ll be fully covered — and still exposed.

Not just our bodies.
But our souls.

06/06/2025

I strongly condemn this incident. Nobody has the right to kill anybody.

But meanwhile, there's a wise old saying — it's better to avoid a harmful disease than to struggle with curing it later.

I don’t know about others, but I truly pray that Allah protects me and my generations from the fitna of fame and the addiction to social media — because this trap can become dangerously destructive, even life-ruining.

05/06/2025

Calling out vulgarity isn’t being judgmental—it’s standing for basic decency.

We’re told to speak against what’s wrong, not stay silent just to keep people comfortable.

If modesty offends you and vulgarity doesn’t… maybe the problem isn’t people speaking up.
Maybe it’s your conscience trying to wake you up.

05/06/2025

📿 DAY OF ARAFAH – MASSIVE OPPORTUNITY
(9th Dhul-Hijjah)

Even if you're not at Hajj – this is YOUR day to level up.
Don’t scroll. Read. Apply.

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🌙 FASTING
– Sunnah for non-Hajjis
– Reward: Sins wiped for last year + coming year (Sahih Muslim)
– Eat suhoor. Break fast at Maghrib.

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🤲 BEST DU'A OF THE YEAR
– Prophet ﷺ: “Best du'a is on the Day of Arafah.” (Tirmidhi)
– Focus time: Last hour before Maghrib
– Make a list: Forgiveness, goals, your fam, the Ummah, etc.

💬 Repeat this all day:

> Lā ilāha illa Allāhu waḥdahu lā sharīka lah,
lahul-mulku wa lahul-ḥamdu
wa huwa ‘alā kulli shay’in qadīr
(Keep saying it. HUGE reward.)

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🧠 OTHER ACTS TO DO TODAY:
✅ Dhikr (SubhanAllah, Alhamdulillah, Allahu Akbar, etc.)
✅ Qur’an – even a few ayahs with meaning
✅ Charity – any amount counts
✅ Tawbah – cry, mean it, reset your soul
✅ Takbeer after every Salah:

> Allāhu Akbar ×2,
Lā ilāha illallāh,
Allāhu Akbar ×2, wa lillāhil ḥamd

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🚫 AVOID:

– Gossip, arguing, binge-watching, wasting time
– Be offline as much as you can. This day is NOT for distractions.

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🔥 REMINDER

This day is better than any other day in the year.
Make it count. You don’t know if you’ll see it again.

🕓 Peak Du’a Time: After ‘Asr till Maghrib – GO ALL IN.

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If you benefited, forward this. You never know whose life it’ll change.
📩

03/06/2025

آزاد قیدی
رہا ہوں، پر قفس کی گونج دل کے آس پاس آئی،
خود اپنے راز سے ہوں دور، یہ کیسی ہے رہائی؟

نہ شوق پر، نہ تاب پر، نہ دل میں آرزو باقی،
خودی سوئی ہوئی ہے، جیسے ہو کوئی خدائی!

ملی جب ہوش کی دولت، تو چھن گئے وہ خواب سارے،
کہ جن میں رنگ تھے روشن، کہ جن میں نور کی چھائی۔

کہاں وہ بچپنے کا حسن، کہاں وہ نیند بے فکرے،
یہ عمرِ بالغی لائی ہے اک ایسی رسوائی۔

نہ فکرِ تازہ، نہ جذبہ، نہ سوزِ عاشقانہ،
نظر ہے تیز لیکن کھو چکی دل کی بینائی۔

میں آزادِ وطن بھی ہوں، میں تعلیم کا وارث،
مگر کیوں آج لگتا ہے، مری دنیا ہے سائی؟

اٹھا، اے قیدیِ افکار! تجھے اب لوٹنا ہوگا،
خودی کی راہ دکھلائے گی تجھے پھر خود رسائی۔

✍️: ZOHA

22/05/2025

You are not someone's back up plan. 🙅🏻‍♀️