Rumaisa And Zara Kindness Rocks

Rumaisa And Zara Kindness Rocks Carrying out the beautiful legacy of my beloved daughters by promoting kindness . We are part of TKRP .

04/06/2026

☕️ People, especially women, often pass backhanded compliments like, "Your husband supports you that's why......" I've never denied it; rather, it’s me who highlights the humanness in him .... Otherwise, it’s UNMACHO, as it negates the aggressive, hyper-masculine stereotypes.

☕️ But the reality is that most of them do not know me at a personal level .... My life is far from easy and nothing was ever served to me on a silver platter ... I refused to compromise!!! I've always been fierce, vocal, quite a rebel—or بدتمیز, or so they say!!!!

Because, I never played the suppressed, BEECHARI card, which (in my family) is brilliantly used by extremely toxic women as a cover.

✨️ The message I received (slide 2,3 ,4) flipped the script altogether ... For the first time, someone acknowledged my role as a partner. Instead of overshadowing my efforts, he or she recognized my contributions in the darkest times, which are often conveniently ignored or taken for granted.

❤️ I've finally finished, 'The Grapes of Wrath'. It felt like looking in a mirror. It is the exact blueprint of what it means to carry a family through survival and fight systems built to break you .... fighting a world of systemic neglect, social stigmas, judgments, apathy, and absolute insensitivity. It's an isolating journey, but just like the book teaches us, when the world offers no safety nets, our only rebellion is to turn our deepest grief into a community of radical kindness.

❤️ I became "Ma Joad" as I had to walk this path myself, with the invisible weight, to keep going against all odds ....

Out of that immense struggle, was born. It is a battle against a cruel world, an initiative of pure love and connection to honour my beautiful daughters الحمداللہ ❤️

✨️ And now, I've dived straight into Steinbeck's East of Eden. The Grapes of Wrath was quite heavy, but this one has fully immersed me. I finished the first volume within a few hours .... All my crochet projects and other commitments may rest in peace until I am done 🙏❤️☕️

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🤍 I had baked a birthday cake for Faisal, and tube-fed Zara. That felt like a small feat for me, so I tried to take her...
29/05/2026

🤍 I had baked a birthday cake for Faisal, and tube-fed Zara. That felt like a small feat for me, so I tried to take her picture with Faisal's birthday card placed on her... She had already passed away, but I was completely unaware. Till now, I have never deleted that photograph. If I had known , I would never have taken a picture of her in that state....I tried making a victory sign with her fingers, but they were too soft,
so I just took the picture, uploaded it, and tagged Faisal on Facebook.

Then I thought I should change her diaper, as in an hour Rafay would be back home in an extremely grumpy and exhausted mood. When I picked her up, she was too heavy. I was about to drop her but somehow managed to place her on the bed. I started wiping her face—the ears, the eyes—and then I saw her lips. They were purplish. My heart started sinking. I slapped her cheeks slightly; she appeared lifeless. I called Faisal and told him that she was gone ...
He came within 15 minutes and picked her up. I gave my helper Rafay's diaper and told him to tell the school's guard to ask the Ayah ji to change it, I had requested the HM as well ... We broke multiple
signals and reached the hospital. The doctor grabbed her from Faisal,
performed the standard emergency treatment protocols, and confirmed my suspicion.

I made another post with the janaza details, and later I went to the mortuary
for the Ghusl .... What happened later
was extremely toxic and inhumane, but
I still hear,
"صدف نے ہی کچھ کیا ہوگا، بدتمیزی کی ہوگی ....
جی بالکل، واٹر کولر آپ کا ہوا"


I started —the legacy project in loving memory of my daughters. They were deprived of love, kindness, empathy, decency, and inclusion, and now all of this is given freely with the sole aim to honour the names of my daughters who were brutally treated by the world.

🧶👕 This cardigan is for ages between 5 and 10. It's for the Balochistan Charity Project 2026. Zara will be living through the child wearing it; I hope that it will keep the recipient cozy and warm. May Allah SWT give me the courage and fortitude to carry on the legacy of my girls آمین ثم آمین 🤍

For the past 12 years, our birthdays have been harrowing. Coincidentally, mine is on May 29th and Faisal's is on the 30t...
28/05/2026

For the past 12 years, our birthdays have been harrowing. Coincidentally, mine is on May 29th and Faisal's is on the 30th, which unfortunately happens to be Zara's Barsi as well. Likewise, Rafay's birthday falls a day after Rumaisa's sad demise.

I have developed a severe aversion to the words "Happy" and "Happiness." It becomes extremely exhausting for me when people start debating it.

Fixing me won't change my reality ... a reality others don't have to live.

Their arguments basically stem from their own discomfort with profound grief and mental health issues.

It's not that we don't celebrate our days. We do, but I don't post about them, as I don't like being bombarded with 🥰🤩😍🎊🎈🎉🎁 emojis and birthday wishes. Honestly, it gets on my nerves.

This isn't due to a lack of faith, gratitude, or a positive outlook on life. The fact is, I cannot practice superficial toxic positivity. That is fake ....a pretense I cannot exhibit!

So, here's to my 47th and Faisal's 50th year on earth. We have survived the sharpest edges of loss, steered our family with fierce authenticity, and refused to let the world dilute our truth. Cheers to the strength it took to get us here, and to the honest, uncompromised path ahead ....only if life permits ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلَّٰهِ 🤍☕️



27/05/2026

☕️ Eid-ul-Azha is rooted in the virtues of تقویٰ, submission, and a practical spirit of extending kindness and empathy. Unfortunately, the focus mostly falls on the ritual of قربانی and the distribution of meat.

❤️The true essence of Eid lies in interacting with genuine warmth, compassion, and a real spirit of inclusion in the real world, not just on social media. It shouldn’t be reduced to spamming our contacts with forwarded Eid Mubarak messages or bulk texts.

👩‍🦽 Participation in festive occasions becomes extremely difficult for families caring for children with disabilities or special needs, especially when the community isn’t supportive...

👩‍🦽Eid-ul-Azha should directly challenge this by shifting our communal focus from mere performance to inclusive practices.

🧑‍🦼 Such occasions are challenging for both caregivers and children with disabilities, as well as for anyone facing debilitating illnesses.

🧑‍🦯 For those with sensory or physical limitations, loud noises and overcrowded environments can become overstimulating and inaccessible. That’s why we need to modify our surroundings to accommodate these families. There’s also a need for accessible mosques, and practical, non-intrusive support should be readily available to help them.

🧑‍🦼 Inclusion and compassion are verbs, not just buzzwords or passive feelings. We need to learn how to actively practice and demonstrate them through our actions, by walking in the shoes of families facing these struggles ... Doing that will make us less judgemental!

✨ A warm Eid Mubarak from to all around the globe ❤️

In every joy , in every hardship - الحمد لله for Allah's decree is always perfect ❤️☕️ ✨
24/05/2026

In every joy , in every hardship - الحمد لله for Allah's decree is always perfect ❤️☕️



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