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10/08/2021

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Travel helps you find your true self, your real self.... Isn’t it so cliché?

What does it actually mean to find your true self? Is it mean that I am not what I really am? Is it mean that I am unaware of my true self?

Sometimes back I was in a state of the rush to find my passion, to find the purpose of my life. I read on the internet that traveling helps you find yourself. I planned a trip to Skardu in quest of myself and ran away from the chaos of the city.

The beauty of Skardu is undeniable, there is something different about it. I cannot describe the beauty over there in words. It was so peaceful and mesmerizing. I was having the best time of my life but deep down whatever I do, where ever I go I was waiting for a moment, where I can connect my true self. I was thinking about how it will all happen? When will I feel something different something like I have read on internet?

Days were passing fast and I was getting frustrated that I am still the same. I came here along to find my true self but haven’t found it yet. Around 2 days before my departure I make myself comfortable with the thought that maybe I have found myself, this is real me or maybe travel doesn’t help.

I woke up at midnight and came out of the glamp. I was all alone there. I climbed the treehouse and felt cold wind passing through the crisp of my bones. I looked around; the view was breathtaking. It was a dark soothing night; all-around snow-covered mountains touching the glittering sky. I lay down on the mat and gazed at the sky. It was the vision to be held for forever.

Stars were blinking on the dark sky; dewy clouds were merging with one another, slowly and peacefully moving. It seems like every star has a certain position; clouds were moving at a certain speed. I felt like it was destined for the clouds to move slowly to complement the whole sight. If anything would be different, the whole view would be ruptured.

Life is also the same, everything happens for a reason. Every person has a perfect position in our life. We do have bad phases but there is no need to rush, they will also pass, like dewy clouds. And if we will try to rush, we will hurt ourselves.

There was utmost peace in that realization, I have never experienced that before. I was far away from the chaos, from the noise of the people reminding me to rush. I was in peace.

Travel doesn’t help me to find another me or real me. I am the real me. Travel helped me to find more about myself, it helped me find some parts of me that were covered and caged by the havoc of the city. I want to find more about myself. Finding yourself is not a one-time thing, it's a journey. I want to travel more to find more about myself.

05/05/2021

POWER OF THOUGHTS

When I was in High school, I started watching a series on vampires, I was so much obsessed from that series that I saw vampires even in my dreams and the reflection of that series started coming in my behaviour, like I started repeating certain dialogues that they used in that series.

Later on, my exams started, I put myself in studies and after sometime that obsession vanished. Whatever we see or consumed for internet has a big impact on our thoughts process. As their is source of everything, similarly our thoughts also come from the source.

As we see now a days most of the young girls and boys want to come on YouTube, Instagram. They want to start vlogging and fashion blogging. This is what they are consuming most of the time that’s why they want to do that. And they are also doing very good in that.

Whatever you are consuming all day on internet or in daily routine, your thoughts are influenced by them. That is the source of your thoughts. We often complain we are not getting new ideas; how will you get new ideas or thoughts if the source is old.

If someone watches or read fictional stories so their thoughts will most probably resonate that. If you want new ideas then you had to move towards the new sources. Our thoughts play an important role in our life. If you want to grow yourself, and work on your self-improvement then working on the thought process is the first thing. Change the sources of your thoughts if you want to do something creative and fresh.

Have you ever noticed changes in yourself after watching any series or after reading book?
Share your views in comments.

Was bit confused which one to post so posted both of them.

02/05/2021

You are not other thoughts, You can be what you want to be.

Don’t let others decide you what you want in your life. You are the controller of your life. Never let your decsions influenced by others.

Sometimes we are so much influenced by others that we started believing that these thoughts are our thoughts but actually they are not. Our thoughts get lost somewhere due to the fuzz of others. This all happens because we don’t believe in ourself. We are not confident about our ideas so we get easily manipulated.

29/04/2021

We all have been struggling in our lives, one or in another way. Someone is working hard to become financially strong; someone struggles with relationships. We all are stuck somewhere. But there is a way if we keep practising that we all can heal and find happiness in our lives, and that is being generous.

I am not asking you to help someone with money.Being generous means showing some kindness. Appreciating the small efforts of your peers, helping someone in their work, initiate a small conversation with your friends or even smiling at a person who serves you food is also a part of generosity.

These small things will cost you nothing but it will help you forget you worries. It is proven by studies that people who are generous are happier, and it also helps fight depression and anxiety.

27/04/2021

This song is all over the instagram for last few days. But have anyone of you noticed the lyrics of the song?

And I was running far away
Would I run off the world someday?
Nobody knows nobody knows
And I was dancing in the rain
I felt alive and I can't complain
But now take me home
Take me home where I belong
I can't take it anymore

Most of the time in our lives we are in places or with someone where we felt alive and happy. But that happiness is for just time being, it is not permanent, it is not the real place where we belong so we started feeling suffocated.

However how much difficult it would but we have to leave because that is not our home, that is not where we belong.

It is a dream that felt like real from far but as we came closer to it it will vanished away.

But when I picked it up
Then it vanished away from my hands.

This song might hit u differently. This is what I thought after listening this song.

IB: ._

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11/04/2021

Life is like a journey. In this journey, we have to make decisions that can change our destinations completely. And more challenging part is to have a clear view of what we actually want, where we really want to be, with whom we really want to be, and what can actually be best for us.

We want lots of things in our lives simultaneously, but we can not be at two places simultaneously. We have to leave some things behind to get another thing more precious and more beautiful.

Today is an important day in my life. As I have made an important decision that is to be at a better destination. It was difficult, tough, and so hard to leave that hypocrite destination as it has given me soo much false high hopes about its luxuries that are not even possible in real life.

It has been two years since I am trying hard to be at both places simultaneously; I tried my best, I gave my 100%, but it is not working anymore. That hypocrite place is holding me back from a better destination. I have made myself understood that it is the time to leave one.

I have decided with lots of courage to be at a better place, and trust me, it is not as difficult as I thought it would be afterward. It's better than before, and with each passing second, it's becoming more better, and I am more satisfied and more relaxed.

Have you ever taken such decisions? And how difficult was it for you?
Share your views in the comments and tag those who have been a big supporter for you in these challenging times.

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03/04/2021

SHORT REMINDER TO MYSELF

Today I choose to be happy. I choose to be cherish. I choose to love myself. I choose to be free. I choose to let go that is not mine. I choose to be away from all those people who are toxic to my peace of mind. Today I choose to be hopeful that there is another sunshine tomorrow. I choose to embrace myself with all of my flaws. These flaws make me unique and all that is unique is precious. I choose to be beautiful. Today I choose to be humble. I choose to be gentle towards me. I choose to be more compassionate. Today I choose to be a better version of myself. A better me, A better person. A better human.

01/04/2021

Hope for the best and believe that it will happen, and it will happen. If it doesn’t, then it wasn’t the best for you. There’s something better waiting. Before you lose hope, stay positive, see signs in the littlest of things.

Some years back I was in worst phase of my life. I started comparing myself more and more with others and focusing on my imperfections and how inefficient I am. I started telling myself that I am not good enough, and I cannot do anything in my life. I was too much brutal with my own self.

With this thought of I can’t and I will not whatever I try to do I failed miserably. Even though if everything is right I still find a way to say something bad about myself. Then one day I sit down and realise what the hell I am doing with myself, and what I have done with me. This was not me. I was always the most optimistic person. I started digging my inner feelings and insecurities. I started to understand more about my emotions and promise myself whatever happens whether I failed or pass I will find three positive points in every situation. I started practicing this exercise and you will not believe me how everything changed later.

I believe we all need to be more humble; gentle towards ourself and be positive towards our life. Everything happens for a reason.

29/03/2021

5 Ways to Simplify Your Life

1.Be assertive. It doesn't mean to be rude; it means to know your position and goals and be determined towards it.

2.Don’t be afraid to take decisions of your life. You may be wrong sometime but it will help you to grow.

3.Happiness is a choice so always choose to be happy. Find happiness in small things.

4.Keep distance from people who demotivates you or you feel negative vibes from them.

5.Don’t spend too much on thinking. Just do it. Value “doing mindset” than “thinking mindset.”

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02/09/2020

Life is like a fluid; it never stays the same. It’s never static nor unchanging and this year is a best example of it.

It means as life is flexible so our thinking should also be flexible. We all believe subconsciously that we have flexible thinking which is also called cognitive flexibility.

Flexible thinking doesn’t mean our thinking needs to be optimistic, flexible thinking means considering a range of different possible consequences of actions rather than only considering an optimistic view or only considering a pessimistic view.

Flexible thinking goes beyond just having an open mind to different perspectives. It is also having the ability to adapt to new situations, break down complex tasks into bite-size chunks, improvise, and shift strategies to meet different types of challenges.

So how can you develop a flexible mind and be more intentional in using it?

Just carve out some time for day dreaming, talking to people outside of your social circle, doing something out of your comfort zone. Listening to ideas or concepts that you may actively disagree with before disregarding them.

Always try to look at everything from more than one angle, and change the context or your environment. Take a walk, take a coffee break ..try something different.

Even exercise offers a great mental boost!

The more you can challenge yourself to be spontaneous and allow for some new experiences, the easier it will be to integrate flexibility into your everyday life!

21/07/2020

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05/07/2020

What is the cost of the dream?

Dreams are aspirations, strong desires or hope. Wishful thinking is also called dream.

Dreams that only mere to wishful thinking are free but when you want to turn your dreams into reality then you have to pay price for it.

So,now the question is what is the price of a dream? That depends on the dream one has but one thing is sure the journey to fulfill your dream is not easy. One has to be persistent and hard working to achieve his dreams. You work long and hard to see it come to be. It will cost in time and pesistent struggle.

Do you want to turn your dreams into reality?
Are you ready to follow the path of hardwork to fulfil your dreams?

Share your views in comments. 😊

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