Soul Queens

26/03/2025

This Mother’s Day, I’ve made up my mind. I will celebrate myself the way I desire to be celebrated.

For so long, I waited for others to see me.
To validate me.
To say, “You’re a great mother. You’re a great sister.”

I hoped someone would notice my heart, my struggle, my light.
The silent battles I fight through every day—
the guilt, the constant questioning:

Am I pushing my children too hard?
Are my expectations too high?
Am I giving enough support?
Am I asking too much from my partner?
Am I modelling what I want my children to become?
Every year, I hoped.
And every year, I was disappointed.

But this year… something clicked.
I realised: whether they see it or not, I do.
I know what it took to get here.
I know the healing, the growth, the tears, the sacrifice.

Only I truly understand my journey—
and that’s why it’s up to me to honour it.
No one else can celebrate me the way I know I deserve.

So I will.
I’ll buy the flowers I want.
Book the spa.
Get the massage.
Give myself softness, love, and joy.

Because I am worth celebrating.
I am proud of the woman I’ve become.

This Mother’s Day, I’m not waiting for anyone.
I am the Soul Queen. And I am living in my power. 👑✨

15/03/2025

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12/03/2025

Forgiveness is For You, Queen 💜👑

This is how you forgive someone who broke your heart—not for them, but for YOU."

💜 You forgive by giving yourself time to heal. Healing doesn’t happen overnight. Some days, you’ll feel strong, and other days, the weight of the past will pull you back. But each day, you grow. Even when it doesn’t feel like it, you’re getting stronger.

💜 You forgive by focusing on YOU. Stop pouring your energy into negativity. Block, unfollow, disconnect—protect your peace. Reread your favorite books, dance to music that lifts your spirit, spend time with women who empower you. Remember what joy feels like.

💜 You forgive by stepping away from the pain. Don’t let it take root in your soul. Acknowledge your emotions but don’t keep reliving the past. Picture your pain like a balloon—let it float away. Release it. It no longer has power over you.

💜 You forgive by accepting what happened. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you forget. It doesn’t mean they’re excused. It means YOU choose not to let it define you. The past cannot be changed, but your future is still yours to create.

💜 You forgive by reclaiming your life. Because your life is bigger than the person who hurt you. You are a Black Soul Queen, a force of resilience, love, and strength. You walk with grace, with wisdom, and with a heart too powerful to be chained by pain.

📌 The Benefits of Forgiveness for a Black Soul Queen

👑 You reclaim your energy – No more exhaustion from carrying old wounds.
👑 You heal generational pain – You stop cycles of anger & bitterness.
👑 You walk in your divine feminine power – Peace, love, and joy radiate from within.
👑 You free yourself to love again – Love is your birthright, and it will find you.
👑 You step into your QUEENDOM – Because no heartbreak can take away your crown.

Queen, what’s one way you choose peace over pain?”

07/03/2025

Climb every mountain,
Search high and low,
Follow every byway,
Every path you know.

Climb every mountain,
Ford every stream,
Follow every rainbow,
Till you find your dream.

A dream that will need
All the love you can give,
Every day of your life
For as long as you live.

Climb every mountain,
Ford every stream,
Follow every rainbow,
Till you find your dream

A dream that will need
All the love you can give,
Every day of your life,
For as long as you live.

Climb every mountain,
Ford every stream,
Follow every rainbow,
Till you find your dream

06/03/2025

Queen, maybe your journey right now isn’t about loving someone else. Maybe it’s about loving yourself first—about learning how to sleep without waiting for a goodnight text and waking up with peace in your heart.

Perhaps now is the time to value your own space, to chase your dreams without feeling rushed, to become your own home—a place where love, safety, and fulfillment already exist within you. And I hope, one day, you’ll truly believe this too. 💜

06/03/2025

Soul Queens, you know deep down in you, there is a habit costing you the life that you want.

05/03/2025

Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life.

- Omar Khayyam

02/03/2025

The beauty of a woman is reflected in her soul.
- Audrey Hepburn

02/03/2025

Queen, intrusive thoughts can feel like chains holding you back. The more you focus on them, the more they pull you into a spiral of negative emotions. But you can’t break free by just 'trying not to think about them.' That’s like telling the ocean not to have waves.

Instead, when those thoughts come, try this: Carry out a valued act—an activity that aligns with who you truly are. Run. Meditate. Dance. Garden. Play with your kids. Invite friends over. Go for a walk. Over time, your brain will learn to let go of thoughts that no longer serve you. Your power is in what you choose to focus on.

💜

What’s one activity that always brings you back to yourself?

01/03/2025

Go ahead and act like your prayers have been answered and watch it actualize in the physical.

I don't know who needs to hear this but God is saying this to you.
I have heard you my daughter. Enough of the same prayers everyday for I have already answered them.

Now go ahead, start doing the work so I can bless the works of thy hand and multiply them in 10 fold."

01/03/2025

Soul Queens, what is the one thing you're razor focused on this month of March?