16/09/2025
People (women) donât know how important it is to find themselves before marriage, to have their lives all figured out before becoming a parent.
We tend to glamorize early marriage but to be honest i see no advantage than having all your children early and being free but even that isnât a good reason for me because they will end up growing so fast and leaving your house so early before you even start aging đđ
Alot of women are so clueless about their lives all because of early marriage, you will find yourself buried so deep in motherhood and sometimes depressing especially when you donât have a supportive partner.
Some are lucky enough to get it together through supportive partners but not all women are that lucky.
Please, prioritize yourself no matter what, those children will grow and leave someday and at the end of the day you are all that matters.
My point: Find a balance
Work-Life-Career-Family should all be balanced out, no one should be ignored âïž
