Cheekiemonkies

Cheekiemonkies BASED ON A TRUE STORY
Dad/Author/Speaker
OG Parenting Influencer in SG
COMPASS, ex-FFL Council Member I have guest written for Yahoo!

Founder of the cheekiemonkie.net blog, I am also the author of 'Got Kids, Go Where?' - a book of 500 activities for parents to do with their kids in Singapore. Singapore Parenting website and was invited as a speaker at Asian Festival of Children's Content 2015, and a panelist for Singapore Children's Forum 2015. I was appointed a judge for Singapore Tourism Awards 2016 & 2017, and a Council Membe

r of the Advisory Council on Community Relations in Defence (ACCORD) Family & Community and Families for Life Council. I also co-founded Daddy Matters (www.daddymatters.sg)—an online community of active dads as well as dads who want to be active in promoting the message of active fathering to everyone. Strongly believing in the maxim “ who says parenting can’t be fun?”, the blog covers the adventures that we embark on together as a family. It features new, fun and kids-friendly places to visit or dine in, the occasional overseas trips when the travel bugs bites as well as reviews of kids and lifestyle products and gadgets that the family will enjoy.

Running on 9% energy, 100% denial, and unlimited dad batt - fully recharged by love, laughter, and this amazing bunch. O...
21/09/2025

Running on 9% energy, 100% denial, and unlimited dad batt - fully recharged by love, laughter, and this amazing bunch. One final round of musings before I take on 50 in a year’s time!

49 today: the season finale of my 40s.Sure, the metabolism has slowed down, my hairline and gravity are in a long-term r...
20/09/2025

49 today: the season finale of my 40s.

Sure, the metabolism has slowed down, my hairline and gravity are in a long-term relationship, and naps now count as hobbies.

But honestly? I’m grateful. The best part of this entire ride hasn’t been avoiding the wrinkles (clearly lost that battle) but laughing, learning, and loving with my family.

If turning 50 is the sequel, then 49 is the warm, hilarious cliffhanger. Here’s to celebrating the chaos, the joy, and the cake - how’s my Cinnamoroll cake btw? 😆

Just like that, the Sep sch hols are over.For me, this was the most un-school-holiday school holiday so far: one night i...
14/09/2025

Just like that, the Sep sch hols are over.

For me, this was the most un-school-holiday school holiday so far: one night in Malacca, some media events, and being Ale’s silent study buddy while the boys were in camp. Different from before, but I guess family time isn’t about where we go anymore… it’s about showing up, however small.

A 2D1N dash up to Malacca over the weekend... cos that’s all we could squeeze in between army schedules and real life. A...
07/09/2025

A 2D1N dash up to Malacca over the weekend... cos that’s all we could squeeze in between army schedules and real life. Ash had 2 days of leave after finishing BMT, but Ayd couldn’t get leave, so the weekend window was all we had.

Was it too short? Of course. Did I wish for more days? Always. But at this stage, when the kids are more independent and their time isn’t really ours anymore, I’ll take whatever chance I can get.

Because once they hit their late teens, family time isn’t a given anymore. Between army, school, friends, and their own plans, it feels like we parents are just trying to squeeze into whatever pockets of time are left. So when those rare windows open up, you don’t think twice. You just pack your bags and go.

We even spent the night in a log cabin… in the middle of a durian farm. Not your usual Malacca hotel stay, but hey, memories > luxury. Because the best trips aren’t measured in days, but in moments that make you smile.

Ash has officially passed out from BMT today. Hard to believe that just 10 weeks ago, he was so anxious about enlisting ...
04/09/2025

Ash has officially passed out from BMT today. Hard to believe that just 10 weeks ago, he was so anxious about enlisting that he could hardly sleep. Fast forward, and while I doubt he enjoyed the push-ups, route marches, or getting shouted at, the army mates around him made all the difference. Somehow, in between the mud and the sweat, he found his rhythm.

The journey wasn’t easy, but the wifey and I are incredibly proud he’s come this far. Of course, this is just the first milestone — still another 3/4 of the training to go 😅

Still, the wifey and I are so proud of how much he’s grown in such a short time. It’s bittersweet — The same child we once shielded from every bump now has to weather the storms himself — and grow stronger through it. We know tougher days lie ahead, but jiayou, Ash! We'll always be here, cheering you on every step of the way.

School’s out for 10 days - so what’s the game plan?Easy.Dive into this list of 40 activities. And guess what? 28 of them...
03/09/2025

School’s out for 10 days - so what’s the game plan?

Easy.

Dive into this list of 40 activities. And guess what? 28 of them are FREE (that’s 70%)!

Yep, I already did the math for you so all you gotta do is take your pick ☝️

30% of Singapore is less than 5m above sea level... that’s less than half the length of an SG single-deck bus.If the sea...
28/08/2025

30% of Singapore is less than 5m above sea level... that’s less than half the length of an SG single-deck bus.

If the seas keep rising, things could get messy. But don’t worry - PUB has been plotting the game plan and you & the fam get to try it out at the Riding the Tides Exhibition!

From AR floods and a sea-level mirror showcase, to building your own coastal defences, clay coral workshops and even a ‘Be a Coastal Protector game’ - Riding the Tides is packed with fun, hands-on activities for everyone. And the best part? Your wallet stays dry ‘cos it’s FREE!

🗓️28-31 Aug 2025
🕙10AM-10PM
📍VivoCity Atrium
🌐go.gov.sg/riding-the-tides-cm
🎟️FREE Entry

Don’t just scroll past- bring the family, snap your photos, and ride the tides with us ONLY for this weekend!

Same same but, different. Once upon a time, it was slides, swings, see-saws on weekends. Now it’s jogs, sit-ups and pull...
16/08/2025

Same same but, different.

Once upon a time, it was slides, swings, see-saws on weekends. Now it’s jogs, sit-ups and pull-ups (or me just pulling a muscle 😅).

The games may have changed, but the joy hasn’t.

Because whether it’s chasing them down a slide or jogging behind them, what matters is being present for them - at whichever stage of their lives.

No NDP tickets? No problem — National Day Heartland Celebrations 2025 @ Central SG brought the festivities right to our ...
13/08/2025

No NDP tickets? No problem — National Day Heartland Celebrations 2025 @ Central SG brought the festivities right to our doorsteps! 🇸🇬

From the thrill of the Red Lions 🪂 and the formidable Mobile Column 💨 to the dazzling drone and fireworks shows 🎆, every moment was filled with heart, fun and that familiar kampung spirit throughout the event ✨

Swipe 👉🏼 to relive the highlights from this unforgettable day!

📲 See what’s next at go.gov.sg/centralsg

Happy 19th Birthday, Ayd!Missing Ash who had to book in slightly earlier today. At least we all enjoyed a round of hot p...
10/08/2025

Happy 19th Birthday, Ayd!

Missing Ash who had to book in slightly earlier today. At least we all enjoyed a round of hot pot buffet lunch together 😍

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