15/07/2025
When I was training to be a news anchor at CNBC and scared out of my wits in front of the camera, a very wise coach said to me: “Relax. You’re not flying airplanes. If you make a mistake, no one dies.”
I have since shared that line many times with my media training clients, in Singapore and elsewhere, who are nervous about doing interviews or presentations.
That comparison resonates deeply with me because my husband is a captain at Singapore Airlines. I see firsthand the incredible amount of dedication and training that pilots put into keeping their passengers safe.
Right now, I am sitting on board the longest non-stop flight in the world, en route from Singapore to New York with my husband at the helm of the aircraft.
I feel so proud of him, and his steady hand reminds me of the hard work and commitment I see exemplified in my clients.
Moving outside of one’s comfort zone to learn how to do something that frightens most people (like flying airplanes or giving interviews) takes courage and an ability to persevere through anxiety and discomfort.
After working with many clients over the past decade who have made it to the top of their fields, I am convinced that this is the trait that sets top performers apart from everyone else.
The ability to recognize discomfort, understand it is normal and accept that you will be imperfect while learning a new skill.
Then, wait it out.
Pilots have to be perfect. Fortunately, the rest of us get a little more grace when trying to expand our skill sets.
My thoughts from 30,000 feet. 😀
