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10/03/2025

Overcoming People-Pleasing as a Believer in Christ

People-pleasing is a silent trap that can subtly enslave a believer, pulling them away from God's purpose and into the exhausting cycle of seeking approval from others. While kindness and service are integral to Christian living, they should not come at the cost of compromising faith, values, or divine calling.

Why Do We Struggle with People-Pleasing?

1) Fear of Rejection – Many seek approval to avoid feeling unloved or left out (Proverbs 29:25).

2) Desire for Validation – The need to be recognized or affirmed can lead to placing others’ opinions above God's (Galatians 1:10).

3) Avoiding Conflict – Some prefer to keep the peace at all costs, even if it means denying their convictions (John 12:42-43).

Scriptural Action Points to Overcome People-Pleasing:

- Seek to Please God, Not Man
“Am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.” – (Galatians 1:10) Align your decisions with God's Word. Let His approval be your priority rather than the fluctuating opinions of people.

- Find Security in Your Identity in Christ
“For you are all children of God through faith in Christ Jesus.” – (Galatians 3:26) Knowing that you are already accepted and loved by God frees you from the need to earn approval from others. Meditate on Scripture that affirms your worth in Christ.

- Stand Firm in Your Convictions
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” – (Romans 12:2) Develop a habit of seeking God's guidance before making decisions. Pray for courage to stand firm even when it’s unpopular.

People-pleasing can feel like a noble trait, but when it leads to compromising faith, it becomes bo***ge. Christ calls us to live for Him, not for the fleeting approval of men. Walk in the confidence of God’s love, knowing that His affirmation is eternal and sufficient.

09/03/2025

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17/01/2025

08/01/2025

This week's read is entitled "The Journey of The Seed of Hope" by Moema Bridget.

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30/12/2024

As we enter this new year, let’s embrace the courage to step out of our comfort zones. Like Peter, who walked on water when Jesus called him, let’s trust God’s guidance and take bold steps toward our dreams.

“Then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water and came toward Jesus.” – Matthew 14:29

This year, don’t let fear or doubt hold you back. With faith as your anchor, you can achieve the impossible. Trust God, take the leap, and see Him do great things in your life!

What “boat” do you need to step out of this year? Share in the comments below!

30/12/2024

Looking for a good book to read these holidays?

Do consider getting a copy of "A Woman's Influence" by Tony A. Gaskins Jr and Sheri Gaskins.

Tony Gaskins and his wife explore a woman’s positive impact on a relationship in this practical and accessible guide that walks you through a series of irreplaceable lessons on making personal changes that foster healthy relationships.

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30/11/2024

A robust spiritual life will cost if not more than a University Degree in this life.

It will require the same amount if not more energy, time, commitment, discipline, studying, money, sacrifice, faith, endurance and hope.

In the same way when "fees" are not paid, the learning process and development of a person is hindered, the same in the spirit, when we dont commit the time, passion, studying, discipline and etc required, it will reflect: There will be areas of our lives we will not have Mastery in.