24/07/2021
Parents example
If there are few books in the house, and parents spend all evenings in front of the TV or at the computer, then it will be quite difficult to get the child to read books. It is quite another matter when children see that mom and dad are reading, discussing what they have read.
Reading is not a duty, but a pleasure.
Never scold your child if he refuses to read. You want to interest him and teach him to read, and not turn him away from this activity. Don't haggle - now you will read 10 pages, and then you can play on the computer. With this approach, reading will be perceived as an uninteresting, boring occupation that needs to be dealt with as soon as possible. These are definitely not the best ways to motivate a child to read, the result will most likely be not at all what you expect.
At the most interesting point…
If the child does not like to read, but listens with pleasure when you read, then do not refuse, but interrupt at the most interesting place. Mom has a lot to do, but he can do it himself and find out how it all ended. So say: "That's it, I have no more time, if you want, read it yourself." In most cases, this is exactly what will happen.
Have a quiz
Agree with other mothers (friends, neighbors, classmates), for sure reading problems are not only you. Offer the children this kind of entertainment - choose one book, give a certain period of time to read, and then arrange a quiz (you can combine it, for example, with a birthday). Children answer questions about the work they have read, the one who does the best will receive a prize. If the kids like this kind of entertainment, they can hold quizzes every month.
Selection of books
The book offered to the child should be of interest to him. And for this you need to know his hobbies. Even adults read without pleasure when the topic of the book is not interesting to them. What can we say about children! A girl who loves fairy tales about princesses should not be offered a book about pioneer heroes. A boy interested in dinosaurs will not be interested in a book on space travel. The main thing is to know what the child is interested in and to offer something that he will definitely not refuse. Moreover, the interests of children are changing, the main thing is to observe this and immediately react.
Books by age
Choose literature by age. How to get a child to read classical literature at the age of 7? No way. Do not spoil the mood for yourself or your child. He likes fairy tales - let him read fairy tales. Everything will come with time. Our task is to make the child love to read. So let him read whatever he wants. Even if you can't wait to influence his choice - keep yourself in hand. Even if it seems that it is time for the child to switch to more serious books, do not interfere. Over time, everything will change.