21/06/2025
Well a relationship is important but some things are more important
I have had two of my friends(fellow boys) ask me about my girlfriend, one was like bro you've never introduced anyone to us, what's the matter is everything okay.
I was like there is no problem everything is kawa we're in the talking stage, anytime I will introduce her to you! But is there anyone in reality... As of now I am sure no I recently realised I am on my own.
Well, it's important to love, build yourself first, I know some believe you can build life with someone and it turns out beautifully(the economy is doing wonderfully 🤣)
You can't love someone if you're broken, you give what you have, I realised I wasn't putting myself first, which I am learning to do lately. I am roughly 3 years from 30, I guess this is the time to build myself.
Imagine spending 2 hours on calls with someone who's gone turn their back against you in the next 3 months because you didn't get them roses on valentine's day.
Sometimes the person that seems serious has a lot of what I would call red flags to me not even 3 of the values I be looking at.
1. Lets say beautiful, non religious, on drugs, impatient, wants to be posted everywhere, alcoholic
2. Hardworking, wants life of movie stars, wants me to serve Sugar daddy vibes, still in touch with their exs......
ETC
Am sorry to say this, I have had some girls throw themselves my way but didn't see things work out, to me as a man I believe it's better to go with the person I love, not one that wants me.
Sometimes I try starting up something with someone en all she says is Ivan you must be joking, the person takes it that way for the next couple of weeks, that way morale is lost, weee don't say I easily give up no!
I am sharing this because I have always had incidents of people who come into my inboxes for relationship advice, and they usually get the best from me a single person 🤣🤣
Maybe mine won't be from social media I should try somewhere in the village, A Kenyan girl too ghosted me🙄
okay good bye I goingi