Loving Without Boundaries

Loving Without Boundaries Consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, and sex positivity
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At Loving Without Boundaries we believe that loving WHO you want HOW you want is a fundamental human right. Many have a fear of discrimination or exclusion as well as a loss of friendships and relationships, partly because they are “coloring outside of the lines” of what society deems appropriate behavior (basically hetero-normative monogamy as the only choice for healthy relationships). Many also suffer from a lack of support, understanding, and a sense of belonging due to mainstream society telling them they are WRONG for being who they are. Lastly many resort to cheating on their mate – thus creating emotional pain and suffering – because they don’t realize there is another choice. I truly believe that we can improve the quality of our lives by improving the quality of our relationships. I believe that at the end of each of our life journeys, it is love and the quality of our connections that we will cherish and hold dear to our hearts, no matter which path we choose to get there (monogamous, polyamorous, or otherwise). Being vulnerable and truly connecting means knowing who you are and having the courage to share your authentic self with others. The world is taught to believe in the scarcity model based on fear surrounding relationships, and thus many are dysfunctional or fail altogether creating unhappiness, disconnection, and isolation. The Loving Without Boundaries mission helps one see the world in abundance (vs. scarcity) with a sense of happiness that the world (and healthy, loving relationships) are within our control. My mission is also to teach people that they have more choices than they may realize, as well as how to love themselves better replacing self-hatred for being their authentic, genuine selves. I strive to help by offering a supportive community here at Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) as well as actionable advice through writing articles, relationship coaching, public speaking, effective tools and a place we can call home while we all navigate these waters in our unique quest for happiness and joy. The Loving Without Boundaries community is geared towards those practicing ethical non-monogamy of all kinds with an emphasis on polyamory and the poly-curious. The world needs to stop teaching people that hetero-normative monogamy is the only way to have healthy productive relationships. That is simply not true! There are MANY ways to have healthy, loving relationships. On a related note I’m not OK with how sex negativity is so prevalent across the globe and even talking about sex is shunned in some circles. There is nothing wrong with talking about something as natural as sex. Expressions of love through the union of human beings is beautiful. I stand behind the philosophy of Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Alliance. Woodhull envisions a world that recognizes sexual freedom as the fundamental human right of all individuals (both men and women alike) to develop and express their unique sexuality; to be personally autonomous with regard to bodily integrity and expression; and to enjoy sexual dignity, privacy and consensual sexual expression without societal or governmental interference, coercion or stigmatization. With love and gratitude, Kitty Chambliss, ELI-MP Relationship and Transition Coach

Mission: Welcome to Loving Without Boundaries! I’m Kitty Chambliss, Founder and Chief Hostess around here. But let’s be clear on one thing – while I may have started this community, you are the ones who make it what it is. It is not mine, it’s OURS. I see my mission as pretty simple: To Love and to Educate. Given all the individuals in the world, there simply is not only one type of relationship structure that works for everyone. A romantic relationship is collaboration – a joint creative project to build something as unique and individual as the people creating it. Yet we live in a society where monogamous, heterosexual pairing is the overwhelming majority of how relationships are structured. We are taught to desire and seek one other person – the one person who will make us whole and happy. Then supposedly we will no longer desire others. Some call this the “romance myth” – the heterosexual, monogamous romance. Because we are socialized in a culture that teaches us that monogamy is right and natural, monogamy is often not a conscious choice for people, but is more of a default for how to be in relationships. Yet monogamy does not seem to be working well enough for all as evidenced by the high divorce rates, with roughly one third citing infidelity as the cause. Cheating is rampant in society, with some believing “they have no choice.” My mission is to help change the way we as society view relationships and connect with each other as well as ourselves. I am teaching people that we have more choices, how to love better, and to understand that we are ALL valuable, even if one is part of a sexual minority. Everyone has the right as well as an innate desire to be loved, to have a sense of belonging, and to conduct their lives as they wish. I want people to feel that they are FREE to CHOOSE who to love and how to love, free from discrimination and ridicule. And I want to help create a world where there is more tolerance, understanding, and acceptance for unconventional relationships and sexual minorities. Ethical non-monogamy and polyamory are an option that is available to you and to all of us that choose this path.

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06/25/2019

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06/21/2019

Happy Friday folks! Please enjoy my newly released podcast episode with Alex Bove, Ph.D, host of the “Talk Like a Man” podcast, researcher of non-monogamous men, sexologist, college professor, and all around great guy. Oh, he's polyamorous too. :-)

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06/19/2019

The LWB Podcast is having another contest giveaway for any NEW PATRONS that sign up or those who UPGRADE! Help get podcast recordings released by getting us to our next milestone, and I'll give away a signed copy of my “Jealousy Survival Guide” book along with a Teddy Bear wearing a "Be The Change You Want To See in the World" T-Shirt! Come join the party, become part of the family, and get exclusive content, such as our interviewees answering the question "What is your best sex advice?”

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06/18/2019

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The world needs more polyamory and LGBTQ+ friendly lawyers! Here's an interview with one in the DC/MD area where I live,...
06/13/2019

The world needs more polyamory and LGBTQ+ friendly lawyers! Here's an interview with one in the DC/MD area where I live, Jonathan Lane. You will learn so much listening to this great interview. Enjoy!

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06/11/2019

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So honored to have been featured on the “Conversations with PolyAnna” podcast where I was interviewed by  Poly Anna ...
06/10/2019

So honored to have been featured on the “Conversations with PolyAnna” podcast where I was interviewed by Poly Anna herself. We talk about lots of various polyamory/CNM/sex positive topics, including me sharing why pole dancing has meant so much to me as I struggled to overcome depression in my life. This was recorded at the recent Southwest Love Fest conference in Tucson, AZ. Such an overall great experience! Thanks Poly Anna for the great work that you are doing!

If you are struggling with feelings of jealousy, insecurity, fear or inadequacy, I invite you to book a free Breakthrough Session with me. We can discuss what you are struggling with, what's getting in the way of your success, where you ideally would like to be, and talk about ways to help you get there together. Aren't you, your life, and relationships worth it to take positive action?

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Just released my latest podcast episode with Andre Shakti, a sex worker, educator, and journalist who is currently writi...
06/07/2019

Just released my latest podcast episode with Andre Shakti, a sex worker, educator, and journalist who is currently writing three different sex columns. What a busy and super interesting person! I really love this interview! Tune in and listen to this fascinating and fun interview.

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So honored to have been featured on the “Seek, Discover, Create” podcast where I was interviewed by the amazing Lexi...
06/06/2019

So honored to have been featured on the “Seek, Discover, Create” podcast where I was interviewed by the amazing Lexi Sylver on the topic “How to Deal with Jealousy”. I met Lexi at the recent Southwest Love Fest conference in Tucson, AZ and she is a lovely human being whom I admire for the amazing work she is putting out into the world.

If you are struggling with feelings of jealousy, insecurity, fear or inadequacy, I invite you to book a free Breakthrough Session with me. We can discuss what you are struggling with, what's getting in the way of your success, where you ideally would like to be, and talk about ways to help you get there together. Aren't you, your life, and relationships worth it to take positive action?

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06/03/2019

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Shame. It's a word and a feeling that we detest yet we all feel at different times or moments of our lives. In my latest...
05/30/2019

Shame. It's a word and a feeling that we detest yet we all feel at different times or moments of our lives. In my latest podcast with the amazing Gloria Jackson-Nefertiti, we dive deep into this topic while we still manage to have some fun as well in this enlightening interview. If you are in the Seattle area, you can attend her “Transcending Shame” workshop that she is presenting this Saturday! Details in the blog post link below.

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05/28/2019

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Have you seen polyamory inspired theatre yet? Luckily I have yet I want to see MORE! In this episode, I interview theatr...
05/22/2019

Have you seen polyamory inspired theatre yet? Luckily I have yet I want to see MORE! In this episode, I interview theatre artist, musician, and songwriter, Melanie Moseley creator of “Sexology: The Musical”. It's an awesome episode that I hope you all enjoy. Maybe you can see her on tour at a theatre near you!

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Whether you know someone in your life who is a transgender individual or not, you may find this interview absolutely fas...
05/16/2019

Whether you know someone in your life who is a transgender individual or not, you may find this interview absolutely fascinating as well as moving. I invite you to listen to this riveting interview with León Mitchell Powell, whom I met at Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit where we were in the same polyamory workshop.

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05/13/2019

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Announcing an amazing interview with Melissa DaSilva – therapist, author, and creator of the Pride Connections podcast...
05/09/2019

Announcing an amazing interview with Melissa DaSilva – therapist, author, and creator of the Pride Connections podcast that focuses on the LGBTQ+ community. She rocks!

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05/07/2019

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04/30/2019

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Are you ready to hear from the Author of “This Heart Holds Many: My Life as the Nonbinary Millennial Child of a Polyam...
04/29/2019

Are you ready to hear from the Author of “This Heart Holds Many: My Life as the Nonbinary Millennial Child of a Polyamorous Family”? Then hold onto your butts: We've got the interview right here with Koe Creation. Join us!

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Holy Hanna is this podcast episode good! Check out my conversation with Lindsey Ellison, a relationship coach who specia...
04/19/2019

Holy Hanna is this podcast episode good! Check out my conversation with Lindsey Ellison, a relationship coach who specializes in helping folks leave a toxic relationship via divorce or breakup, especially if you are dealing with a narcissist. She even has a course called "Break Free From Your Narcissist." Love it! Thank you, Lindsey.

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Ever heard of the APA Division 44 Consensual Non-Monogamy Task Force? Well you have now! Learn more about it on episode ...
04/10/2019

Ever heard of the APA Division 44 Consensual Non-Monogamy Task Force? Well you have now! Learn more about it on episode 105 with Michelle Vaughan, B. Adam Taylor, and Jess Roush as well as the research project they have been working on for years on healthcare experiences of the polyamorous. Great stuff, and this is only the beginning!

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03/25/2019

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Hey gang! So excited to share my latest podcast show with the creator of The Pageist podcast, Paige La Marchand over in ...
03/20/2019

Hey gang! So excited to share my latest podcast show with the creator of The Pageist podcast, Paige La Marchand over in the UK. So much goodness in this episode. Enjoy!

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03/14/2019

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I am delighted to share this introductory essay and short film called “Triangle” created by Michael Conroy. It touch...
03/11/2019
A Polyamory-Inspired Film Short Called “Triangle” from Writer/Director, Michael Conroy – Enjoy!

I am delighted to share this introductory essay and short film called “Triangle” created by Michael Conroy. It touches on challenging issues like jealousy, multiple simultaneous relationships, emotional conflict, and most importantly love. Very impressed with this piece. I hope you are too!

http://lovingwithoutboundaries.com/2019/03/04/a-polyamorous-inspired-film-short-called-triangle-from-writerdirector-michael-conroy-enjoy/

Cheers Sexy People! I am honored and delighted to share a short film that came to my attention by the writer/director himself, Michael Conroy. I just finished watching it for the first time, and I gotta say, I was in tears by the end of it. Why? Because this is partly my life, including the BEAUTY o...

If anyone here in FB land knows Sarah Sloane – sexuality and relationships educator, coach, and writer – then you kn...
03/02/2019

If anyone here in FB land knows Sarah Sloane – sexuality and relationships educator, coach, and writer – then you know this latest podcast interview is going to be awesome. Spoiler Alert: It IS awesome! I hope you enjoy it! Sarah speaks all over the country – try to catch one of her workshops throughout the year.

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