07/31/2024
When I was younger and in the first few years of my career, I remember a situation where I was treating a patient for shoulder pains. I remember after treating her for a few weeks, I asked how she was doing. She replied, "Oh you guys have helped me so much, my shoulder is doing much better".
She went to the doctor's office a few days later for a follow up. The doctor promptly reached out to me and said "Hey that shoulder patient told me she's not going back to you."
I asked him if she gave a reason. His reply "She just did not feel like it was the right place for her."
I was pretty surprised since I vividly recall the conversation we had maybe a week earlier.
That stuck with me for quite a long time. Even to this day it confuses me.
Early on I was confused and a little sad. But that sadness quickly shifted to anger, deep deep anger.
A seed had been planted and the coming fruit.... Disdain, Anger, Jealousy, Pride, and a spirit of unforgiveness.
In the Bible, Jesus uses parables to explain complex thoughts. He has an exceptional gift at crafting a story that is relatable and easily understood.
Jesus used the idea of a seed many times in his teachings, and I find that easy to understand and I suppose it has found its way into my own teachings whether on this page, or in the other areas I find myself teaching others... whether at work or at my recreational activities.
If you take a seed and you put it in an empty jar, and you store it in a dark shed... it's going to remain just that.... a seed. But the moment you start to water and nurture that seed, something spectacular happens. At first all you see is a tiny green shoot. Then it gets bigger... More and more leaves grows. Branches shoot off, and if you give it the right TLC and enough time, You get fruit. I'm not going to pretend that I have a green thumb but even my wife and I in our gardening ineptitude can grow a few cherry tomatoes. When you cut open that tomato you see something. You see hundreds of little seeds just waiting for their own fresh start.
Anyone who has had to cut grass knows that keeping it looking nice can become a chore. One of the things we may struggle with the most is an invasion of w**ds. Have you ever looked across your yard and noticed a patch of grass that is just a bit taller with a bundle of black seeds at the top waiting for a windy day? In a perfect lawn it can be an eye sore and if it isn't dealt with quickly it can spread and what was once a pristine yard is now a field of yuck.
Holding a grudge is like planting a seed. But it isn't of the cherry tomato variety, its the nasty w**d that's quick to ruin your beautiful lawn.
When we focus on how other's have wronged us and allow that seed to take root, it will spread to every part of our life. It can quickly ruin the efficiency of a workplace, the peacefulness of the home, the fellowship of a church, and the love of a family.
There is a lot to learn from these situations and without delving too deep and making this post far too long, I think the number one thing we can learn from this is that the seeds we plant will bear the fruits of our heart.
If we plant seeds of love, and forgiveness, and kindness, and patience... we will reap sweet sweet fruits.
If we plant seeds of unforgiveness, hate, and hurt.... the fruit will be quite bitter.
So today, what seeds are you planting?