
06/28/2024
Charles Boyer was known as "The Great Lover", a moniker that annoyed him to no end because throughout his life he was deeply devoted to only one woman- his wife Pat Paterson. They were married for 44 years and he never once stepped out on her. A true record for Hollywood.
Boyer met Pat at a party in 1934. The British actress was wrapping up "Charlie Chan in Egypt" and Boyers pal Maurice Chevalier introduced the two to one another. For Boyer it was love at first sight. He proposed two weeks later and they were married on Valentine's Day in Yuma, Arizona a mere two months after meeting.
While Boyers career took off, Pat decided to give hers up in order to raise their only child,Michael, born in 1943. The trio was happy and very close. During the 1940s, Boyer made some of his greatest films such as "Gaslight" and "The Constant Nymph". He then moved to Broadway, winning a Tony for "Don Juan in Hell", before forming 4 Star Playhouse with Ida Lupino, David Niven, and Dick Powell.
On Sept 23, 1965 the Boyers faced the greatest tragedy of their lives. Their 21 year old son, Michael, died. According to witnesses, his girlfriend told him that she wanted to break up. Michael replied that he could not live without her and called himself a "loser". He then went into the den and a single gunshot was heard. Subsequent news reports said that earlier, Michael had shot out a window in his home while playing Russian roulette, thus raising the possibility that his death was an accident. Boyer and his wife never fully recovered from the death of their son and lived increasingly isolated lives. However, the tragedies continued.
Pat was diagnosed with cancer and died on August 24, 1978. Boyer, unable to face life without his great love by his side, took an overdose of Seconal. He was 2 days shy of his 79th birthday. He was laid to rest beside his beloved wife and son in Culver City.
Boyer was more than just a great lover onscreen- he was a truly passionate man offscreen.