08/22/2024
Things Beyond Price
This morning I decided to take a break from some audio transfer work and spend 20 minutes with my dad, Leonard.
Sadly, we lost him to cancer back in 2007 (probably due to exposure to radiation while in the Navy, supporting Operation Castle Bravo), and during his days of chemo and radiation I decided to record many sessions with him, talking about his upbringing, his family, and the family business on Chene Street in Detroit.
Recording family histories can be a bit tricky. I have to be honest: I was spurred into doing this knowing my dad's condition and while hoping he'd beat it, I was also keenly aware that he night not.
Why do I say they are tricky to record? I don't mean that from a technical perspective, rather, it's something that few of us want to think about - the prospect of having to say goodbye to a loved one is something upon which few of us dwell.
Part of what I do under the auspices of immersifi recording services is just that - recording family histories for clients who have come to realize that family history matters - especially in these days of DNA and distant connections.
I guess what I really want to convey in this post is this: while I am a businessman who provides such services, I am also someone who knows just how treasured can be such recordings. To that end I offer this advice:
Whether you have me, or someone like me (i.e. an audio professional) record your family history - OR - whether you choose to do it yourself (your phone can be quite handy for such recordings), this is something that you SHOULD do. Indeed, while I always focus on delivering the utmost fidelity and realism in such recordings, sometimes simply having a "warts and all" recording is better than not having it at all (AND modern technology often allows many such recordings to be cleaned up after the fact).
Best of all? You get to have a "forever" memory / keepsake that can literally keep alive the memory of a loved one; their humor, warmth, compassion, regrets...all come across in such recordings.
Many believe that the manner in which we speak is reflected in the way we write. However, for me, I have found that having such audio "documents" helps to decorate stories and recollections with the paint that is human emotion; it's not just what is said, but the manner in which it is said that gives it its weight and feeling.
I like to add artwork to the files that I create so that as I play the recordings I see an "album cover" of sorts (you see this in your mp3 streams for example) to remind me. In the shot shown in this post, we see a very young man, in either a Piper Cub or an Aeronca at the airfield for one of his civilian flying lessons (although he learned to fly at the United States Naval Academy).
TLDR. My classic folly. Be that as it may, I really do believe that the time to record your loved ones is now - they won't be around forever, and you don't want to hear your future self exclaim "I really wish that I had recorded my mom / dad / brother..."
Don't wait.
Preserve your memories - either by yourself, or enlist the services of an audio professional.