10/14/2025
NEW VIDEO ABOUT HEALING UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
"We Healed the Impossible | From Toxic to True Love"
My wife and I spent almost twenty years in a toxic, co-dependent, trauma-bonded relationship - and we healed it. Now, twenty-five years in, we’re living proof that everything is possible.
In this episode, I share the real story of how we broke free from the unhealthy patterns that once defined our marriage and learned to love from a whole, healed place. I talk about what it really takes to rebuild trust, communicate honestly, and give each other space to grow without losing connection.
Then I read one of my favorite pieces of writing by Steve De’lano Garcia. It’s a stunning reflection on how to love an independent woman. It captures what our love feels like now: spacious, sacred, and real.
If you’ve ever wondered whether a toxic, co-dependent, and/or trauma-bonded relationship can truly heal, this is your sign that it can. We’re proof.
Steve De’lano Garcia Writing: Link to his post in YT description (FB won't allow two links)
My wife and I spent almost twenty years in a toxic, co-dependent, trauma-bonded relationship - and we healed it. Now, twenty-five years in, we’re living proo...
