The Prather's

04/15/2025

You said the right words… but your face said something else.

Let’s be real—sometimes the real breakdown in communication isn’t what we say, but how we show up.

Your spouse may not be reacting to your words.
They may be reacting to your posture, your tone, your expression.

Because body language is communication.

In this new carousel, we touch on how unspoken signals could be sending the wrong message in your marriage—even if your heart’s in the right place.

Take 60 seconds to swipe through the slides and ask yourself:

What nonverbal habits show up when you’re frustrated?

One Vision. One Mission. One Legacy.
The Prathers

04/12/2025

7 Marriage Myths We Believed… And the Truth That Set Us Free

We used to think that arguing meant we weren’t meant for each other.
We thought love was supposed to feel magical all the time.
We even believed that putting the kids first was “the right thing.”

But through God’s Word and real-life growth, we’ve learned that healthy marriages aren’t built on emotion—they’re built on truth.

We created a full episode + blog that dives even deeper into these myths and the biblical truth that brought real freedom and unity in our marriage.

Swipe the carousel first—then dig deeper here:

Blog: https://visionforuspodcast.com/post/why-happy-wife-happy-life-harms-marriages-a-call-for-mutual-respect-and-emotional-honesty

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Eviz8x_3F9gsi=fPGDCLtfWnUKWmcQ

Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3JMu38df2oDUMMRijp6h6y?si=QjeqUTEyQuWk7C2p6OdAuw

Comment “One” if you’re building unity on purpose.

04/10/2025

Fellas—have you ever felt like your only role was to “keep her happy”?
That your feelings didn’t matter as long as there was peace in the house?

We know that pressure. We’ve lived under it.

In our latest episode and blog, we explore how this mindset subtly damages marriages and what it looks like to build a relationship where both people feel seen, heard, and valued.

It’s time to retire this phrase.
Let’s build something better.

Check out our latest YouTube Episode and you want to listen the link to the audio podcast on Spotify is below!

Blog: https://visionforuspodcast.com/post/why-happy-wife-happy-life-harms-marriages-a-call-for-mutual-respect-and-emotional-honesty

YouTube: https://youtu.be/Eviz8x_3F9g?si=idg6YqCl3RQDAPvx

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3JMu38df2oDUMMRijp6h6y?si=9gSUix4qS-edWUdVW1SLoQ

One Vision. One Mission. One Legacy.
The Prather’s

04/08/2025

“Happy wife, happy life” is one of the most common marriage myths out there.
But here’s the truth we had to face:

When one partner’s emotions are prioritized and the other is silently suffering—that’s not peace.
That’s imbalance.

This mindset taught us to suppress, not connect.
To avoid conflict, not grow through it.

In this carousel, we’re breaking down why this phrase needs to die—and what real emotional safety in marriage actually looks like.

If you’re tired of surface-level harmony and want real connection in your relationship:

✅ Swipe through the truth
✅ Read the full blog
✅ Watch the conversation on YouTube
✅ Listen on Spotify

You don’t have to perform in your marriage.
You can be fully known and fully loved.

Blog: https://visionforuspodcast.com/post/why-happy-wife-happy-life-harms-marriages-a-call-for-mutual-respect-and-emotional-honesty

YouTube: https://youtu.be/Eviz8x_3F9g?si=zEzPG5tpONccY3pi

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3JMu38df2oDUMMRijp6h6y?si=chqJNwfeQqukGcSJ1Ikdxw

ONE VISION. ONE MISSION. ONE LEGACY.

04/07/2025

Happy wife, happy life"... sounds nice, right?
But what if that mindset is actually hurting your marriage instead of helping it?

In our latest blog and episode, we unpack how this popular phrase:
➡️ Silences husbands
➡️ Creates emotional imbalance
➡️ And subtly fuels resentment over time

This one’s real, raw, and necessary.
👀 Read the blog: https://visionforuspodcast.com/post/why-happy-wife-happy-life-harms-marriages-a-call-for-mutual-respect-and-emotional-honesty
📺 Watch us break it down & Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/
🎧 Prefer to listen? https://open.spotify.com/episode/48eqTOC6jpr3feo2EF23Gx?si=856bbccd357c4081

The Vision For Us Podcast · Episode

04/04/2025

AGREE or DISAGREE?🤔👇🏾👇🏾

04/03/2025

"Happy wife, happy life.”

Yeah… we used to say that.

But over time, we realized how dangerous that mindset really is.

It teaches husbands to stay silent.
To nod their head.

To shut down how they feel just to keep the peace.

That’s not peace. That’s performance.

We realized marriage isn’t about one person being catered to while the other disappears.

It’s about both people showing up fully—mentally, emotionally, spiritually.

I didn’t marry someone to babysit my emotions. I married someone to build with.

And let’s be real—“happy wife, happy life” is just another version of “YES DEAR” culture.

That mindset leaves women unsupported and men unseen.

I need my husband to use his full brain. I need his voice.

I need to know we’re thinking through things together.

That phrase might sound harmless.
But it creates imbalance. And imbalance breeds resentment.

Marriage works best when both people matter.

—Terrence & Angelica 💛
One Vision. One Mission. One Legacy.

04/01/2025

We never called each other “soulmates.”
Not once.

Not when we met. Not when we got engaged. Not when we got married.

That whole “perfect match” idea? Sounds cute. But it’s dangerous.

Because when you believe that marriage should come effortlessly—just because you “found the one”—you start panicking the second things get hard.

But real love? Real marriage? It takes intentionality.

You don’t just find “the one.” You build it.

Our values aligned. Our vision was clear. We respected each other. That’s what made us a fit.

But we weren’t sitting around trying to feel magical about it.

We were asking the real questions:
• Do we share the same faith?
• Do we agree on how to raise kids?
• Do we like each other outside of attraction?

When you know those answers, you’re not chasing butterflies—you’re building something solid.

So no… we don’t do the whole “soulmate” thing.

We do covenant.
We do choosing each other every day.
We do real love that’s built, not wished for.

—Terrence & Angelica

🎙️From our upcoming episode: “Marriage Myths We Believed”

Watch or listen now on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple Podcasts. 👇🏾

https://youtu.be/dzLnThKK5LU?si=z_u1JAtLY_O5yqvN

What Surprising Marriage Myths Did You Actually Believe? Before getting married, we had expectations about love, roles, and how things “should” be—but realit...

03/18/2025

🎶My mother prayed for me,
had me on her mind,
She took the time and prayed for me.
I’m so glad she prayed,
I’m so glad she prayed for me.

🤔Who remembers this one from church? If you know, drop it in the comments 👇🏾

Now that we’re raising kids, we get it — it’s gonna take a lot of prayer!

Some days we’re on top of it, other days we’re just hoping we’re doing this thing right.

But one thing we know for sure — it was the prayers of my grandmothers, mother, and family that covered us through every season.

Now, we’re the ones praying.

Praying for our kids.
Praying for peace.
Praying for patience (because Lord knows we need it!).
And praying that we all make it!

Catch tonight’s episode as we get real about parenting and the power of prayer.

👉🏾 Watch here: https://youtu.be/G6ZDQTppAJ0?si=0w723ZCCLvkCmp3p

Can prayer really shape the way we raise our children? Raising godly kids in today’s world is tough, but what if the secret to parenting success is prayer?I...

03/05/2025

Is Marriage a Covenant… or Just a Contract?

When we got married, we didn’t fully understand the difference between a covenant and a contract.

And let’s be real—most people don’t.

A contract says,
"If you don’t hold up your end, I’m out.”

A covenant says,
"I’m in this, no matter what.”

Culture treats marriage like a business deal.

And whether we realize it or not, many of us follow that same mindset.

“What’s in it for me?” instead of “How do we build this together?”

But when things get hard (because they will), that contract mindset makes walking away easy.

A covenant? That’s built to last.

Marriage isn’t just about two people.

For us we are breaking generational curses.

We believe When you strengthen marriage, you strengthen families.

When you strengthen families, you can transform society.

Whether you’re married, engaged, desire to be, or are in your single era—this is a conversation you can join.

We just drop a new episode on The Vision For Us Podcast.

A countercultural conversation on Marriage: Covenant or Contract? Most Couples Could Miss-sharing our own wakeup call and more

Check it out! 👇🏾👇🏾
https://youtu.be/rTED8eZ5aRE?si=BP6l_NwXRTow55w7

What do you think—are most people approaching marriage like a contract or a covenant?

We want to hear your thoughts in the comments! 👇🏾👇🏾