03/31/2026
Exploring the mirror of the other in romantic strife (& the other woman) for my April Fool’s Full Moon 🤡♎🌝 There's much to muse on re: regret, wishing those that did me wrong felt SORRY FOR IT (cringe?), how pointless it is to hold onto ideas of justice in certain (non-violent) situations & how playing the Sad Clown post-separation feels less appealing post-divorce 🎈 It's time to move on as much as one can, Jestie 🃏
On one hand we need to take all the time we need to grieve, on the other we shouldn't feel obligated to suffer if we find relief thru joy or unexpected opportunity 🎭 Healing is not linear for everyone but it can be harder for those w/o closure, communication, explanation from an ex ⁉️ Instead of obsessing on what, why, how in rejection, betrayal, loss... it's been more useful for me to break down my own relationship with relationships & furthermore my narrative loops in break-ups 🔁
This IS a really wonderful lunation that connects us with more clarity, ability to speak freely & make negotiations around our needs without life-or-death urgency ⚖️ There IS more fluidity to walk away without begrudging boo-hoos 🧜♀️ There also IS more ability to re-frame + re-orient expectations in relationships (of any kind) this week 💐 We have options! But the best focus IMHO is the manner in which we can give ourselves grace to let go of perspectives & fears that keep us afraid in amour 💞
It's nice sometimes to not take everything so seriously 💃 Meta-emotions can be super annoying after all 💌 Latest on thefemmemoon.substack.c💖m
(And the last slide is very much a joke 🤡 We SL♈TS)
