11/05/2025
When youâre in a relationship, you share everything...you shower together, have unprotected s*x, eat off each otherâs plates, drink from the same glass, kiss deeply, and sleep side by side every night. Youâre literally intertwined in the most intimate ways possible.
So why is it that when one person reaches for the otherâs phone, suddenly itâs a âprivacyâ issue? Everything else personal is shared...except that one device. Why?
Because 9 times out of 10⌠thereâs something in there worth hiding.
Letâs be real...if you truly have nothing to hide, why the hesitation? Why the sudden defensiveness? A phone is just an object, yet for many people, itâs filled with secrets, lies, and little conversations they wouldnât want their partner to see.
Some say, âItâs just my personal space,â but isnât your relationship supposed to be the most personal space of all?
At the end of the day, trust should be mutual and transparent. If someone feels the need to lock away a part of their life from the person they share everything else with, then maybe itâs not about privacy at all⌠maybe itâs about guilt. đŻ