09/11/2026
For a long time, I thought a man wanting me badly meant something.… I gave that weight. Sometimes more weight than I gave the way I actually felt when I was with him.
And I was really good at seeing potential.
I could see the man he was trying to become. I could understand why he struggled.…
What I wasn’t always good at was asking myself a much simpler question:
Is who he is right now actually good for me?
I’ve had to learn that someone can genuinely love you and still not know how to love you in a way that feels safe… FOR YOU
A man can have good qualities and still not be your ‘husband’
And sometimes the hardest potential partner to let go of isn’t the terrible one.
It’s the one that’s *almost* what you prayed for.
The one where you can see what it could be if just a few things changed.
Friend give me a 👏🏽 in the comments if u felt that one 😅
