10/28/2025
Hollywood’s new family values: father optional, career mandatory, and mom on her ownClovis Star Media: Hollywood’s new “family values” look like this—dad optional, career compulsory, mom carrying the lot. Slick stories, sure. But do they make for good lives?
From Marx to Millett, the family is framed as a power problem to solve. On screen, independence eclipses interdependence—and off screen, we pay the bill.
We’re seeing fewer babies, more isolated parents, lonelier elders, and the state stepping into roles families once held. That isn’t liberation; it’s crowding out civil society.
In a free market, strong families and strong communities are assets, not obstacles. When the state centralizes care, costs rise, choice shrinks, and community muscles atrophy.
When you watch, a few market-minded questions help:
- What costs are hidden—childcare, sleep, support networks—and who’s actually paying them?
- Who’s doing the invisible labor and who’s getting the applause?
- Where are the fathers as steady, loving presences, not jokes or ghosts?
- How are extended family, neighbors, churches, and community shown?
- Does ambition sit alongside belonging, or replace it?
Things worth celebrating in our stories:
- Ambition paired with loyalty and care.
- Dads who show up, and moms who don’t have to be superhuman.
- Co-parenting that works; kinship, foster, and adoptive families.
- Multi-generational homes and chosen families that actually choose each other.
This isn’t anti-woman or anti-career; it’s pro-people and pro-choice in the true sense—choice created by freedom and prosperity.
Practical, voluntary, market-first ideas:
- Let firms compete on flexibility: father-friendly leave, remote options, and schedules that don’t punish caregiving.
- End marriage penalties and fix benefit cliffs that punish commitment.
- Legalize more living: zoning reform for accessory units and multigenerational homes.
- Deregulate low-risk childcare co-ops and home-based providers to expand supply and lower prices.
- Portable benefits and pre-tax family care accounts so families choose what fits them.
- Writers: give dads arcs beyond punchlines and deadbeat tropes; show the beauty and burden of caregiving with honesty.
- Civil society—neighbors, clubs, faith communities—can do what bureaucracy can’t: know your name and show up.
A gentle note:
- Respect to single parents doing heroic work daily; the critique is about storytelling and incentives, not judging real families.
As viewers and consumers, we vote with our eyes, wallets, and praise. Let’s ask for stories that tell the truth about love, duty, and the quiet heroism of family.
A wee dose of realism might make the art richer and our homes happier. Which films or shows get this right?
More here:
https://disruptarian.com/blog/hollywoods-new-family-values-father-optional-career-mandatory-and-mom-on-her-own/
Hollywood keeps glamorizing fatherless families and boss-babe storylines while theory from Marx to Millett treats the family as a power problem to solve. The result is fewer babies, more lonely elders, and a bigger state stepping into a role families once filled.