I Am Adoria

I Am Adoria Just a happily married gym girlie living, learning & creating 💜 💌 Create Yourself. Someone you’re proud to be đŸ«¶đŸŒ

30/07/2026

No music. Just encouragement from my husband. And my loud ass grunts đŸ€Ł

I had to push through with these 245lb squats today. Still had to do set 2 of 275lb after this. đŸ« 

Today was a struggle but it was such an incredible training session. The hardest sessions really feel the best
. when it’s all over đŸ€­

If you’re on your fitness journey, I want to encourage to keep going it’s worth it! đŸ’ȘđŸŒ

275lb squats and 325lb deadlift today. The leg pump is reallllll. I love being strong đŸ’ȘđŸŒ
29/07/2026

275lb squats and 325lb deadlift today. The leg pump is reallllll. I love being strong đŸ’ȘđŸŒ

28/07/2026

I bake his favorite cake in the gym and in the kitchen đŸ€Ł 🎂

I really have to push through mentally on my heavy squat days. I hadn’t lifted 275lb in foreverrrrr. It was a big rocky in the beginning but I got emmmmm.

My incredible husband always here with the spot and encouragement andddd counting because I always forget my reps when the weight is heavy đŸ€ŠđŸ»â€â™€ïžđŸ€Ł

I’m well on my way to hitting 315 đŸ˜€đŸ’ƒđŸ»đŸ’ȘđŸŒ

You can’t fake a love like this
It was created with our bare hands
It was created by learning how to love together
It wa...
28/07/2026

You can’t fake a love like this


It was created with our bare hands


It was created by learning how to love together


It was created by overcoming trauma together


It was created by having values that dictated our standards for how we show up for each other


It was created through the ups and downs life has thrown at us together


It was created through unlearning unproductive habits (physical, mental and emotional) that could potentially destroy what we have together
.

It was created by holding each other at the highest regard


It was created by faith, with care, with intention with each other.

It was created
 not found
 not wished for


You can’t fake a love like this because it was created for us by us.

28/07/2026

People will talk you out of your dreams, your goals, your relationship, your business, your lifestyle, not because they know something you don’t, but because it didn’t work out for them and misery loves company.

They’ll disguise it as concern. They’ll call it being realistic. They’ll say they just don’t want to see you get hurt.

But really? They can’t imagine it working for you because it didn’t work for them. And your success or happiness would challenge the story they’ve been telling themselves about why it’s not possible.

Don’t let them.

The people who talk you out of what you want the loudest are usually the people who gave up on what they wanted the quietest.

Your path is yours. Your vision is yours. Your life is yours.

What didn’t work for them has nothing to do with what will work for you. You’re not them. You don’t have their mindset, their work ethic, their faith, their partner, their specific set of circumstances.

Stop letting people who didn’t figure it out talk you out of figuring it out.

Protect your vision. Especially from the people closest to you who’ve already decided what’s possible. đŸ–€

28/07/2026

Marriage doesn’t make people boring. People make their marriage boring and then blame marriage for it.

You stopped being spontaneous. You stopped pursuing things that light you up. You stopped being curious about your partner. You stopped creating new experiences together. You settled into a routine and called it marriage when really it’s just two people who stopped trying.

Trone and I have lived so many lives together in what honestly doesn’t feel like that long. Military life, entrepreneurship, new cities, new seasons, new versions of ourselves, we’ve been through a lot and we’re still going.

And even in the middle of busy seasons, routines, our daughter’s schedule, everyday life, we’re still laughing. Still having conversations we’ve never had before. Still finding ways to create something that feels like an adventure even when we’re just in the house.

Not because marriage magically keeps things interesting. Because we both take personal responsibility for keeping it that way.

Your marriage is only as interesting as the two people in it are willing to be. Stop waiting for marriage to be exciting and start being the kind of person who makes their marriage exciting.

Both of you. The energy your marriage has is a direct reflection of the energy both of you are bringing to it.

So before you say marriage is boring, ask yourself honestly, when did YOU stop being interesting?

27/07/2026

Do you feel where I’m coming from?

Whether it’s condiments, relationship types, careers, fitness, lifestyle
. Whateverrrrr
.

You like what you like. Cool. Other people like what they like. Also cool. Neither one of you is wrong for having different preferences.

The energy some adults spend being bothered by what other people choose for their own lives is wild to me. You’re too grown for that.

Just like you’re out here living your life the way you want to without anybody stopping you, let other people do the same.

Let people live. Just like other people are out here letting you live. đŸ–€

Building đŸ§± by đŸ§±
27/07/2026

Building đŸ§± by đŸ§±

26/07/2026

It really says a lot about where relationship standards are that two people being genuinely happy together is treated like some rare, extraordinary thing.

It shouldn’t be a flex. It should just be normal.

But here we are.

Somewhere along the way people started accepting unhappiness and dysfunction as just part of what relationships are.

Like misery is somehow expected when you commit to someone. And then when they see two people who are actually happy, not performing it for the internet, actually happy, it looks suspicious. Like something must be wrong or something must be hidden.

Nothing is hidden. Some people just actually did the work to build something good.

Two people being happy together doesn’t just happen though. It’s built. It’s chosen. It’s the result of both people being willing to grow, communicate, and actually care about each other’s happiness not just their own.

That should be what everybody is working toward. Not the exception. The standard.

That’s not too much to want. That’s literally the point. đŸ–€

26/07/2026

Yes I took a little bite and yes I almost threw up đŸ€ź He couldn’t even finish it either.

Who in your relationship is the one who convinces the other to try new foods? Obviously Trone is that in mine đŸ€Ł

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