I Am Adoria

I Am Adoria 34 • Happy Wife • Girl Mom
Life, love, fitness + womanhood from my real life experiences

10/11/2026

Me and my husband don’t see everything the same way, and honestly, I don’t think we’re supposed to.

We’ve lived different lives, had different experiences, and sometimes we’re gonna come to different conclusions.

The goal isn’t always agreement. Sometimes it’s simply caring enough to understand where the person you love is coming from. 💜

10/10/2026

Communication can’t just be two people making sure they said what THEY wanted to say.

There has to be some curiosity. Some desire to understand where the other person is coming from, even when you still don’t agree.

You can listen, understand how somebody got to their perspective, and still walk away thinking differently.

But if everybody is just yelling their own point and waiting for their next turn to talk… yeah, that’s gonna get frustrating real quick.

Understanding doesn’t always mean agreement. But there has to be a desire to understand.

10/09/2026

The best way to spoil your spouse is to know THEM. Deeply. 💜

What they love, what they need, what makes them feel cared for… and keep learning them as they grow and change over time.

10/09/2026

May the motivation find me 🥴🤣 I said I was going to be honest going into prep so here it is. 😬

10/09/2026

Some days I want the results BAD and want absolutely nothing to do with the workout it takes to get there. 😂

But the goal is still the goal, even on the days I’m tired, irritated, and would rather go home.

Today was one of those days.

10/09/2026

I love doing life with my husband, but I never want all the LIFE stuff to become the only thing we do together.

I still wanna laugh with that man, flirt with him, play around, talk about absolutely nothing, go on our walks, annoy each other, and just enjoy being US.

Because yeah, I love my husband deeply… but I really LIKE that man too.

We’re building a life together, and I want us to have a GOOD time living it. 💜

10/08/2026

Romantic love is beautiful. I LOVE romantic love. 💜

But it is not the only love in this life that counts.

The people who check on you. The friend who shows up. Your family. Your kids. The people who know you and care about you. Even the love and care you’re learning to give yourself.

That love is REAL too.

I just hate seeing people become so focused on the love they don’t have yet that they stop noticing the love that is already showing up for them.

Not having romantic love does not cancel out all the other ways you are being loved. 💜

10/07/2026

You can show up for everybody you love and still make room for yourself too. 💜

That was one of the biggest things I’ve seen while coaching women. We would make time for our families, our jobs, our responsibilities, everybody else… then somehow feel guilty the second we did something for US.

Girl, it does not always have to be them OR you.

Sometimes it can be them AND you.

Taking care of yourself doesn’t mean you care about everybody else less. You matter too, and you deserve to be included in the life you spend so much time taking care of. 💜

10/07/2026

I really was scared that exploring what I felt for him could mess up one of the best friendships I had. 😂

But somewhere along the way, we stopped being JUST friends and started falling in love through that friendship.

15+ years together later, almost 13 years married, and I’m very thankful I took that chance. 💜

He’s my husband, my partner, the man I’m building a life with… and underneath all of that, I still really LIKE that man as a person.

I’m so glad our friendship wasn’t the reason I walked away from something that became this much bigger. 💜

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