01/14/2023
Every day is filled with opportunities that we are given and don’t even realize it.
Despite trauma of being in a domestic violence relationship, there are opportunities for healthier and loving relationships. Despite trauma of s*xual abuse there are opportunities to have a healthy, safe, and fun s*x life. Despite having one or two horrible and abusive parents, there are still opportunities for parental figures to love and cherish you like you were meant to be.
Even though me and my sisters had abusive parents, we have had other people show us love, and give a s**t about our existence.
I could go on and on but the point is that it’s possible to find healing in other opportunities that look different then the one that caused you pain and hurt. You’re experiences DO NOT define or make you who you are.
Take a moment and reflect on the opportunities that you currently have. Maybe you have a friend that you have taken for granted, a family member, or have thought little about a relationship. Find your people, find what’s lacking in your life and fill it with beautiful opportunities because you deserve nothing but love, joy, safety, and adventure in life ❤️
-Ashley