06/18/2025
This is sad, but also because he’s been involved with fundies I know how much that religious thinking is contributing to feeling like he’s broken and thinking that healing means being fixed.
So, in case you need to hear it let me be the one to tell you healing isn’t about fixing what’s broken; it’s about remembering you were whole all along. It’s the sacred process of peeling back the layers of survival, shame, and silence to reclaim the truth of who you are and then being that person.
Healing isn’t about never being triggered, it’s about having the tools to respond with clarity, boundaries, and self-trust when you are.
It’s the ability to name harm without collapsing and to receive joy without flinching. Healing means your nervous system doesn’t just brace for impact. Healing means learning to expand for pleasure, connection, and truth. It’s not about becoming unshakable, it’s about knowing how to move through the shake without losing yourself.
I hope Justin and anyone who feels like him gets the love, help and support they deserve so they can know what it really means to heal and feel loved.
What does healing mean to you? What does it feel like in your body?