Servants Heart

02/25/2026

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I am this empath and I simply have had enough.

12/21/2025

Big thanks to Nick Searfoss

for all your support! Congrats for being top fans on a streak 🔥!

12/06/2025

My silence in the mist of kaos is my new favorite reaction to disrespect and yelling. You want a place in my life learn to speak with out yelling without accusing without jumping to your own conclusions about what I did or didn't do.

Face your own ego and swallow your pride and look in the mirror. Judge yourself because you're reflection gets real when you're called on your bu****it. I ain't no one's punching bag for words or actions. Your actions will have consequences in which you're world will be turned upside down. God doesn't like ugly and He certainly don't like a controlling spirit.

11/30/2025

IF ONLY!!!!!

11/17/2025

Years of waiting for apologies I will never get that hits deep with me. Fighting is all I have ever known and I pray for just once in this lifetime someone will wrap there arms around me and tell me I am safe.

11/10/2025

Sure did!!!!

11/01/2025

Ain't that the truth

10/31/2025

Agreed

It’s never a child’s responsibility to chase their parent’s love.

A child should never have to earn affection that should’ve been freely given.
They shouldn’t have to perform, behave perfectly, or grow up too soon just to be seen, heard, or loved.

Yet so many adults walk around with wounds that started in childhood —
from trying to prove they were “good enough” to be loved by their own parents.

Love isn’t something a child should work for.
Love is something a parent should give — without conditions, without tests, without guilt.

If your child is always trying to make you proud, ask yourself if they feel safe being imperfect with you.
If your child hesitates to speak their truth, ask yourself if your love depends on their obedience.
If your child always apologizes for existing too loudly, ask yourself if they’ve been made to feel “too much.”

Because one day, that child grows up.
And they either spend years healing from the love they had to chase…
or they repeat the cycle, thinking love is something they must constantly prove to deserve.

Let’s be the parents who break that pattern.
Let’s raise children who know they are loved even when they mess up.
Children who never have to question if they matter.
Children who grow up understanding:
💛 “I am loved. I don’t have to earn it.”
✍️ Parenting