09/07/2025
The best part about building a team is that itโs made me a better person.
๐๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ ๐ ๐จ๐๐ฅ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐:ย become the best version of myself, measured by how much I contribute to other people.
Thatโs a big reason I chose to build a team - ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐ ๐ค๐ง๐๐ฐ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐๐ซ.
I read a lot of books and listen to a lot of podcasts, but thereโs only so much you can learn from the sidelines.
The greatest growth Iโve had as a leader came from ๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ๐งโ๐ญ 100% ๐ช๐ฎ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ข๐๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ (๐จ๐ซ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก) ๐๐ง๐ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ.
Leading a team four has demanded new levels of patience, clarity, systems-thinking, communication, and humility.
๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ญ๐๐ก๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ.
And the ripple effects are everything.
Yes, my teamโs lives improve when I lead well.
But so do my clientsโ outcomes - because I show up with more capacity, discernment, and steadiness.
And beyond work, ๐โ๐ฆ ๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ข๐๐, ๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ, ๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐๐ซ, ๐๐ง๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐ because of the inner work leadership requires of me.
That, to me, is the real measure of success.
๐๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐ฅ๐ฌ๐จ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ง๐๐๐ญ๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ข๐ญ๐ก.
In Pnimius HaTorah (the inner dimension of Torah), true greatness begins with bitul - softening the ego so you can be a conduit for goodness.
Leadership is avodah (inner work) that overflows as chesed (giving to others).
Or as Pirkei Avot teaches: โ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ฆ ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐, ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐ฆ ๐?โ
The more I grow, the more I can give.
The more I give, the more I grow.
So yes, building a team has made the business stronger.
But more importantly, itโs made me stronger, kinder, and more useful to the people Iโm here to serve.
And to me, thatโs the ultimate measure of success.
๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐ญ๐๐๐ฆ (๐จ๐ซ ๐ก๐จ๐ฉ๐ ๐ญ๐จ), ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ ๐ข๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง?