The Married Table Talk

03/17/2025

MARRIED FOLKS!
Last night, my husband accidentally knocked a wine glass over and it smashed to pieces on the floor. I wasn’t there to see him do it but I heard the crash. He proceeded to clean up and checked for pieces and after being satisfied that he’d got every piece he went to bed for the night.
Now,I tend to get up and do random things at night around the house so I got up and went to the laundry room. As I went through the kitchen, I saw a couple of pretty nice size pieces of glass.
Honestly, my first response was irritation… I mean it seemed so careless, and what if one of the boys would have gotten up and gone to the kitchen and stepped on a shard? I was becoming increasingly upset when I heard in my spirit a voice of correction saying, ” Aren’t you the helpmeet?”
With this rhetorical question I understood that I should be glad that I was up to pick up what he missed. I re-swept the floor and began moving things around incase pieces had managed to ricochet off somewhere else. I found quite a few.

This is marriage. Our spouses may not always get it right even with their very best efforts, but a true helpmeet sees where there is lack and makes up the difference.

It’s not always time to complain, sometimes it’s time complete.
-Valencia Davis

03/17/2025

Sophia Ruffin declared that God is sending you a spouse who will add to your life and not take away. A spouse who will support you and not compete with you. A spouse who got you! And that’s on that! And I stand in agreement with her!!

This moment was prerecorded in heaven. The enemy couldn’t undo what GOD has determined. This man literally listened to me preach before I preached, turned off the tv while I cried out to GOD, calmed my nerves when I was overwhelmed, listened to me break the text, ironed my clothes, prayed with me and for me, worked the altar and covered me 🫶🏾🙌🏾💕!!!

GOD is faithful. We have two assignments this week. Next up, Tampa & ATL! Pray for us.

I declare GOD is sending you a spouse who will add to your life and not take away. A spouse who will support you and not compete with you. A spouse who got you! And that’s on that!

11/22/2024

What Say Ye?

09/25/2024

🥂🥂 Today marks the 2nd year Anniversary of when I created "The Married Table Talk "- a safe space for "Married" people or those who truly aspire to be married believing in the "covenant" of marriage. The goal was to create a platform where we could RESPECTFULLY engage in open, honest dialogue surrounding the challenges that marriage face and how to overcome conflict through Biblical yet practical principles.

I was sure that the Lord said that he was severing ALL unequally yoked relationships and separating the wheat from the tares so that he could raise up KINGDOM marriages and he wanted my voice and influence.

I WAS Ready! So that December, I created a PODCAST recorded the first episode, created a page, website, merch and even had a soft launch selling out!

And then BOOM! My marriages and friendships went under attack and I GOT SCARED! Fear, doubt, shame , insecurities silenced me! As with so many others.

But no more! I would learn over these 2 years that I was not the only one. Beyond the poses, posts and filters, marriage became a bo***ge and burden for some!

Follow for part 2!

07/24/2024

06/01/2024

Marriage is a 3 STRAND cord! The minute you add someone else, in either dimension, it will be a STRAIN!

05/02/2024

Have you prayed for/over your spouse today? If not, stop and unleash your superpower!

04/30/2024

Adam and Eve had the perfect relationship. But even in Paradise, things can go wrong when evil lurks in!
Guard your marriage!

04/23/2024

The greatest gift that you can give your spouse is patience and prayer!

04/21/2024

The "I DO" is easy.
It's the Marriage that requires work.

04/12/2024

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04/01/2024

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04/01/2024

The covenant of marriage is under attack and we are still focused on matching outfits and cars when our hearts are out of sync. Even the enemy knows the power of a loving covenant and the legacy it builds. We should be Kingdom Building! You can't do that warring against each other! Enough is enough! Let us glorify the Lord through the building up of strong marriage and family! Let's Talk about Marriage for real! The Good, The Bad, The Covenant!

03/19/2024

Knowing your spouses love language is great but loving them in their love language is top tier!