
08/19/2022
Circumstances are almost always out of our control. We’ve all experienced that rush of cortisol coursing through our veins as the things we’d hoped would turn out one way end up going a different way. Maybe you’ve been praying about something for years and yet it seems like those prayers aren’t being answered. You might’ve been tempted to conclude prayer doesn’t work. Here’s where you have a choice. You could give in to the defeated attitude (a way of thinking, like a rut, where the thoughts automatically go) or choose to trust God. He cannot lie and He says He loves you, hears your prayers, and even knows what you’re thinking before you do. God is always on the move. The Word says His ways are higher than ours. What we thought was the best plan may be very different than His plan. Can you trust Him to work it out for your good?
Ask: how could I see this situation from a different perspective? Could God be directing my paths in a wholly different way than I thought was best? Can I trust His plan even when it doesn’t seem like the situation is going well?
Act: take a moment to tell God how you’re feeling and acknowledge He is directing your path and He knows how you’re feeling. Now reframe your situation in the confidence of the truth you just affirmed to Him. This action helps rewrite the story you’re telling yourself and rewires your neural pathways to help you remember these truths which in turn will help you live a happier life, even when the circumstances aren’t what you expected.