05/14/2025
Courting yourself rather than just dating yourself is the blueprint to true self worth.
Dating yourself might mean bubble baths, retail therapy, or spontaneous fun, and while that’s cute, it’s often surface level: game playing with your own emotions, living for the next feel good moment, and making choices based on mood or impulse. It’s eventful, yes but is it meaningful?
Courting yourself, on the other hand, is sacred. It’s about building a vision for your life. It’s purposeful, accountable, and rooted in values that nourish your soul, not just your senses. It means making decisions with clarity, not just chemistry. It means honoring your future self with every present action.
When you court yourself, you’re not just chasing pleasure you’re choosing balance, integrity, and deep, divine self respect. It’s not just self care it’s self honor.
This isn’t simply a mindset, it’s a self worth strategy.
