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Love Letters A daily advice column on Boston.com. A podcast brought to you by The Boston Globe. Season 10: Can people really change? Hosted by Meredith Goldstein.

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The Big Day is The Boston Globe’s wedding column – one that explores how people get from first date to celebration.Our r...
02/20/2025

The Big Day is The Boston Globe’s wedding column – one that explores how people get from first date to celebration.

Our readers are loving it, which isn’t a surprise. It’s nice to hear good news these days. It works like this: you submit your recent/upcoming wedding. We interview you. Then we tell your story – and the wonderful (sometimes complicated!) path to happiness.

We’ll highlight the good stuff – from tiny ceremonies to huge parties. We’ll honor family, florists, friends, special memories, the person who set you up, meaningful readings, the moments when you realized you wanted to stay together, and how you figured out that this could be forever.

Whatever’s special to you. It took a lot of work to get to here, right? Tell us everything.

Apply at the form in our bio.

📸: Lensy Michelle/Lindsey Williams, Lisa Jung (.n.cream_photo), Arletta Weddings, Meagan Explores ()

If you’re asking, yes we’ll be your valentine, NPR. 💌❤️Hear The Boston Globe's Love Letters hosted by Meredith Goldstein...
02/03/2025

If you’re asking, yes we’ll be your valentine, NPR. 💌❤️

Hear The Boston Globe's Love Letters hosted by Meredith Goldstein in the ‘Be Mine’ playlist on the NPR One app now.

Love Letters from Public Radio Exchange -- PRX on NPR One | 48:11

Today it is Harry Styles’ birthday, and we’re still thinking of how he was the one who got away at the Love Letters scre...
02/01/2025

Today it is Harry Styles’ birthday, and we’re still thinking of how he was the one who got away at the Love Letters screening of “The Idea Of You’ at the last year.

Sometimes the ones we love leave us too soon for another adventure. And that’s beautiful, in a way.

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01/30/2025

In Australia, Kelly says she was the victim of "tall poppy syndrome."

What was the fix for Kelly? Moving to one of the most beautiful places in the world: Italy. She explains how leaving town changed her – and her relationship with her ex husband.

Listen to The Boston Globe's Love Letters, wherever you get your podcasts. https://link.chtbl.com/zLLpSgsm

01/28/2025

Are we truly different in certain places or is that just what we tell ourselves?

Today’s episode of The Boston Globe's Love Letters podcast is a meditation on whether geography can change us.

Hear from Kelly on how sometimes location can be everything. Listen here. https://link.chtbl.com/zLLpSgsm

Today, Boston.com and The Boston Globe's advice column Love Letters, turns 16 years old. 💌 🎂Advice columnist Meredith Go...
01/22/2025

Today, Boston.com and The Boston Globe's advice column Love Letters, turns 16 years old. 💌 🎂

Advice columnist Meredith Goldstein says: To those who’ve read for years or listened to the podcast – and to new faces – thank you.

Here's the first letter from 2009: https://trib.al/FWSz5Jw

🎟️ 💌 We are hosting a Love Letters night at the movies – to see a free early screening of “You’re Cordially Invited,” a ...
01/14/2025

🎟️ 💌 We are hosting a Love Letters night at the movies – to see a free early screening of “You’re Cordially Invited,” a wedding comedy with Reese Witherspoon and Will Ferrell.

It’s a good date night, good friend night. It’s Jan. 23.

To win two seats, you can enter here: https://www.boston.com/youre-cordially-invited/

If you win, you’ll get details, but it’s at a Boston-area theater with a large parking lot and T accessibility.

This letter writer, who is married, still has "what-ifs" about an ex. How should they let go of the fantasy of what migh...
01/09/2025

This letter writer, who is married, still has "what-ifs" about an ex. How should they let go of the fantasy of what might have been?

This is the second letter this week about cutting out exes. Read both of Meredith Goldstein's responses here.

This letter writer, who is married, still has "what-ifs" about an ex. How should they let go of the fantasy of what might have been?

Can people change? Meredith Goldstein explores in season 10 of The Boston Globe's Love Letters podcast. January 14th. We...
01/07/2025

Can people change? Meredith Goldstein explores in season 10 of The Boston Globe's Love Letters podcast.

January 14th. We can't wait for you to listen.

Love stories. Dating stories. Relationship stories. Stories about romance, marriage, partnership, s*x, loss, and the human heart. Served with a side of advice. Hosted by Boston Globe advice columnist Meredith Goldstein. Distributed by PRX.

This letter writer is a teen, taking part in cheating that involves their best friend. How do we talk ourselves out of b...
01/07/2025

This letter writer is a teen, taking part in cheating that involves their best friend. How do we talk ourselves out of bad relationship behavior when we're young? 💔

Read what advice Meredith Goldstein gives to this person who is feeling guilty about their recent choices.

This letter writer is a teen, taking part in a cheat. How do we talk ourselves out of bad relationship behavior when we're young?

Someone has a crush on this letter writer. But ... they're not available. Should the letter writer explore it anyway?Mer...
12/24/2024

Someone has a crush on this letter writer. But ... they're not available. Should the letter writer explore it anyway?

Meredith Goldstein: No. Do not confront.

💌 Read today's Love Letter:

Someone has a crush on this letter writer. But ... they're not available. Should the letter writer explore it anyway?

What happens next after being ghosted with no warning?This Letter Writer was talking to a woman after getting out of a r...
12/19/2024

What happens next after being ghosted with no warning?

This Letter Writer was talking to a woman after getting out of a relationship, and things were going well — they were even talking about bringing their cats to meet each other. But then on LW’s 29th birthday, they got ghosted with no warning and quickly found themselves blocked. What happens now?

Meredith Goldstein says that although this is over, prioritizing and initiating communication in future relationships is key. “If the other person doesn’t respond, at least you’ve been clear.”

Read the full letter and the rest of Meredith’s advice: https://trib.al/7J86ppt

What would you do if your partner believed in conspiracy theories?This Letter Writer has been with their partner for ove...
12/18/2024

What would you do if your partner believed in conspiracy theories?

This Letter Writer has been with their partner for over 30 years, but he’s recently started believing in conspiracy theories he’s seen online. This is leading to more fighting in their relationship, and LW doesn’t know whether they should let him go or fight for the relationship.

Meredith Goldstein says to try to find a middle ground between the two of them to remind him what’s important to their relationship. “If these theories leave no time for the middle – if you can no longer access that sweet spot of common goals – it might be time to go.”

Read the full letter and the rest of Meredith’s advice: https://trib.al/JMOvUra

How would you get your partner to start sleeping over again?This Letter Writer, 71, and their boyfriend, 79, have had pl...
12/17/2024

How would you get your partner to start sleeping over again?

This Letter Writer, 71, and their boyfriend, 79, have had plenty of sleepovers before. But after experiencing some "s*xual inability" about six weeks ago, he’s stopped sleeping over. Now, LW is missing some intimacy and isn’t sure how to solve this.

Meredith Goldstein says that if he’s unwilling to discuss the situation at all, it could be a dealbreaker, and to remember to word it carefully when you bring it up. “Be very clear that it’s not just about s*x, but about the general physical intimacy. You don’t like sleeping without him.”

Read the full letter and the rest of Meredith’s advice: https://trib.al/xT02iCp

Would you keep talking to someone on another continent?This Letter Writer met a guy from London who was in Boston for a ...
12/11/2024

Would you keep talking to someone on another continent?

This Letter Writer met a guy from London who was in Boston for a trip on a dating app. Although they weren’t interested at first, they ended up seeing each other every day of his trip. Now, he’s back in London and LW is planning on moving to Europe for six months next year, and they’re wondering if this is worth continuing or if they should break it off.

Meredith Goldstein says that how serious the situation feels should have some impact on the decision. “You don’t want his presence in your life to prevent you from having a great time with other people. That’s when you’d want to stop the conversation.”

Read the full letter and the rest of Meredith’s advice: https://trib.al/bEniThJ

Should you give a long-distance relationship more time?This Letter Writer was in a long-distance relationship with a man...
12/10/2024

Should you give a long-distance relationship more time?

This Letter Writer was in a long-distance relationship with a man for about three months. However, he works in different states for months at a time, and he recently relocated to be closer to his family after his dad passed away. LW ultimately broke things off after realizing long-distance wouldn’t work for them, but now they’re wondering if they should’ve given the relationship more time.

Meredith Goldstein says that if this wasn’t what you wanted, then it’s okay to break it off, and it might be better for him to text people who can better support him after his dad’s death. “You wouldn’t want to become his primary text support system and then abandon the conversation later.”

Read the full letter and the rest of Meredith’s advice: https://trib.al/gBFxkdF

Is it a good idea to get married during college?This Letter Writer and their partner are planning to get engaged during ...
12/06/2024

Is it a good idea to get married during college?

This Letter Writer and their partner are planning to get engaged during their senior year of college, but LW will have to go to grad school as well. Although they’ve planned it out, LW still has concerns about what wedding planning during school will look like and how they’ll live off one income. How should they go about this?

Meredith Goldstein says to consider why getting married immediately after college is so important, and to remember to focus on the present. “If you spend all your time thinking about later, you’ll miss the good stuff in front of you.”

Read the full letter and the rest of Meredith’s advice: https://trib.al/jb1Chz4

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Love Letters is a daily dispatch of advice for the lovelorn, courtesy of Columnist Meredith Goldstein. Get advice, give advice, and read the column at loveletters.boston.com.