Bisexual Killjoy

Bisexual Killjoy not a phase; a phenomenon

05/11/2026

Sapphics in love đź’śđź’ś

Okay, so this speed dating event was out of sight. Like, selling out an event is a huge deal but then to see so many folks connecting took it to the next level.

Huge thanks to for inviting us and the *xualresourcecenter to host this event. In days like these, any amount of joy is important, even for a couple of hours.

We look forward to hosting more dating events of all sorts for the community! Stay on the lookout for what we've got going next.

05/10/2026

Bi+ pride events are essential!

On May 23rd, the *xualresourcecenter is returning with its annual Pre-Pride House Party! This is an evening for food, drinks, music, prizes and a hell of a lot of bi+ community!

We want you, your friends, your partner(s), and all the allies in your life! Support goes to keeping our community events and resources free! So, y'know, a good cause AND a place to party. That's called a win-win, baby.

In a world that tells bi+ people that they aren't allowed to take space at Pride (and therefore hobbling ~60% of the q***r population but okay), go to bi+ events that center our experience!

Comment PRIDE for full details!

04/30/2026

Bi+ history is punk rock đź’ś

In preparing for Loraine's memorial, I've been hearing a lot of great stories about her (as if she could get any cooler). So, in the '90s when AIDS activism was at its peak, bi+ people were there. We don't hear that a lot, right? But that doesn't change the fact that we were doing the work. For Loraine, that work took many forms between advocacy, education, and art.

And baking.

As a way to raise funds for the "caring and cure of bloodborne disease," Loraine would make "p***y pies." According to one source, these were sweet potato pies with l***a lovingly sculpted right into the top. Another source says that they cheesecakes that were topped with "vulvic pears" that she'd ensure were anatomically correct. Either way, I'd like to enlist a bi+ baker to bring the tradition back. Thanks in advance!

According to Loraine's longtime friend, collaborator, and biconic OG, Lani Ka`ahamanu: "Loraine promoted Pussie Pie throughout the 90s. [A]fter removing the plastic wrap, she loved the ritual of carrying the exposed P***y Pie into the house, weaving through the party and placing the pie on the potluck buffet table."

Oh to be a guest at those potlucks!

Take advantage of this amazing opportunity to learn more about your history! May 2. THIS Saturday. Comment LORAINE for more info.

04/28/2026

Comment SPOTLIGHT for more info :)

Our community spotlight application is open!

We want to uplift ALL the bi+ projects. So, if you run a nonprofit, a project, a community, a grant organization, or anything else that serves the Bi+ umbrella, submit your application today.

Share with your community!

04/27/2026

⚠️ Trigger warning ⚠️

The stats are clear: bi+ women are more likely to experience IPV than their le***an or heteros*xual peers.

But why? Well, double jeopardy aint' just a movie starring Ashely Judd. Bi+ women face stigma and discrimanation from two directions at once. First, from heteros*xual communities. Second, from the LGBTQIA+ community. Combine the two and this feeling of helplessness, hopelessness, and lack of community are a recipe for disaster.

Listen to our full and sensational chat with researcher and author .w.bogen in S5E4 of Bis*xual Killjoy.

04/26/2026

Supporting bi+ events=more bi+ events

As much fun as it is to get dolled up, I ain't doing it for my health. I want to see you, gossip about your lives, eat snacks, and drink little drinks.

So, show up and support my work so I can support you đź’ś

Yes, I'm wearing my Super Stay Matte Lipstick by and yes it stayed on all night and yes it'd be real cool if they sponsored us so I can host more bi+ events!

04/21/2026

We're doing it!

We're co-hosting this Sapphic Speed Dating event with *xualresourcecenter at on May 8th is for all sapphics ages 25-45. So, bis*xuals, pans*xuals, le***ans, q***r folks (and all others who resonate with a sapphic label) who are looking for a romantic connection....we better see you there.

Thank you to .community and .chi for inspiring us to finally host a speed dating event! Bi+ folks deserve more places to feel safe to be themselves.

Share with your friends and help Bailey's dream of being mentioned at a wedding, commitment ceremony, cat adoption, and/or Subaru co-signing.

Comment SAPPHIC for more details!

04/16/2026

Let's celebrate our history!

Loraine Hutchins was an American bis*xual and feminist author, activist, and s*x educator. She was also a baddie who didn't tolerate nonsense and believed deeply in both social justice and the next generation of activists.

On May 2, we're celebrating her life in person and online, and we really hope you attend. This is a special opportunity to meet other activists who've been on the scene for decades.

Comment LORAINE for more details!

This one is for the sapphics!On May 8, Bis*xual Killjoy and *xualresourcecenter are co-hosting a sapphic speed dating ev...
04/15/2026

This one is for the sapphics!

On May 8, Bis*xual Killjoy and *xualresourcecenter are co-hosting a sapphic speed dating event at

Dating can feel like a lot. Apps are exhausting, small talk is undoubtedly worse, and somehow everyone is either seems too cool or is unavailable. So we’re trying to do something about it.

Join us for an evening designed to make meeting people feel a little more human and a lot less intimidating. We’ll start with low-pressure icebreakers to get everyone grounded (and to prove that, yes, everyone here is a person like you). Then we’ll move into structured speed dating, followed by an open social hour where you can keep the conversation going in a more relaxed setting.

Nervous? Baby, there’s no need. If you need help getting in the fray, Bis*xual Killjoy’s co-host, Bailey Merlin, will be there to help you be brave and talk to the sapphic of your dreams. She wants to be thanked in a wedding toast, a commitment ceremony, a house warming, Subaru co-signing, and/or a cat adoption, so she’d be happy to take you under her wing.

Light snacks and beverages provided (so you’ll have something to do with your hands).

Big thanks to .chi and .community for inspiring us to bring more bi+ affirming dating spaces into the world. They're very important and cool!

*Learn more in the place we dare not name for fear of tanking the algo)

04/11/2026

Hungry for bi+ community?

So were we. While we had a dreams for how Bis*xual Killjoy would grow, we never could have imagined the beauty of what the project has become. We now have a vibrant online community where folks from around the world can connect and talk through the many facets of bi+ identity.

Ready to find community for yourself? Comment COMMUNITY for full details.

See you in the clubhouse!

04/10/2026

Get ready for some big, beautiful, bis*xual news!

Bis*xual Killjoy is hosting our first ever international meetup at the Bi+ International Conference this July.

The deadline for registration with accommodation is 19 April 2026. Comment "Killjoy" for the full registration info!

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