05/17/2026
Ram Dass believed that taking care of our own “unfinished business” and making practical arrangements can help us to die more peacefully, without fear—which benefits both the dying and the living.
“If I’m going to die, the best way to prepare is to quiet my mind and open my heart,” he said, as quoted in Walking Each Other Home. “If I’m going to live, the best way to prepare is to quiet my mind and open my heart.”
But he wasn’t only speaking of spiritual preparation as we tend to think of it: meditating on impermanence, confronting our fears around our mortality.
He also meant the practical work of preparing for death: making a will, creating advanced care directives and getting your affairs in order.
For more guidance on how to start planning for death, check out our most popular and most-shared Substack piece, “10 questions to answer before you die.”