08/18/2026
The most exhausting thing about being one of the smartest and most self-aware women in the room is that you can see yourself doing it and still can’t stop.
Here’s why that keeps happening and it’s got NOTHING to do with how smart you are. ❌
I’ve been there.
Pouring into people I cared about, seeing their potential so clearly, wanting the outcome for them more than they wanted it for themselves.
But I bypassed the signal I felt every time.
You might think it’s a character flaw.
It’s actually your brain doing exactly what it’s designed to do = PROTECT.
The way it protects you is by running the most familiar story on file. 🗄️
The one that sounds like loyalty…
like love..
the one that sounds like if I just give a little more it’ll click for them.
So the signal gets overridden. Every time.
🪴 You can see someone’s potential and believe in them completely.
You can hold the door open with everything you’ve got.
But it’s their responsibility to walk through it.
The moment you start wanting more for people than they want for themselves you’ve been investing in an account that only you are funding.
This is exactly what I help my clients work through.
It’s not the situation.
It’s the part of her that keeps saying yes when everything inside her is saying no. 🙅🏽♀️
If this is hitting close to home, DM me “DONE” and let’s uncover what’s really driving your decisions, your relationships and why you keep overriding the two things that have never actually lied to you..
your body and your intuition. ✨