11/04/2025
"My name is Harriet. I’m 79. I’ve cut out 123 "Free to Good Home" ads from the Evening Gazette since my husband moved to Oak Haven Care. Not to take things. To give them back.
It started last spring. I saw an ad, "Free baby crib. My daughter passed before we used it. Please treat it gently." My heart stopped. I called the number. A trembling voice answered. "I’m sorry," I said. "I don’t need the crib. But could I.... bring it to the women’s shelter? I’ll clean it myself."
She cried. "You’ll hold it like she would?"
"I promise," I said.
I washed that crib with lavender soap, oiled the wood, and tied a tiny knitted blanket to the rail, a blanket my hands made while my own daughter was born 50 years ago. At the shelter, I placed it in a room for new moms. A volunteer whispered, "This is the first crib we’ve had with a story."
The next ad broke me, "Free rocking chair. My husband sat here for 40 years. Now I’m moving to assisted living. It’s too heavy for me to carry." I showed up with my walker and a thermos of tea. I didn’t take the chair. I sat beside it for an hour, holding the woman’s hands as she told me about Sunday mornings reading the paper with him. Then I called the senior center. "I have a chair with 40 years of love in it," I said. "Can you use it?"
They did. Now it’s in their quiet room, where lonely elders sway while remembering.
Word spread. People began leaving me ads,
"Free to good home, My son’s first bicycle. He’s in heaven now."
I polished it, added a new bell, and gave it to a boy at the community center who’d never had one.
"Free, Wedding photo album. I’m downsizing. It feels like throwing away my marriage."
I had it restored, then gave it to a newlywed couple at the shelter who’d lost everything in a fire.
Last Tuesday, I saw an ad that shook me, "Free to good home: Service dog vest. My veteran son can’t keep it anymore. He says he doesn’t deserve joy." I called immediately. The mother’s voice was hollow. "He hasn’t left the house in months."
I didn’t take the vest. I brought it to the V.A. hospital with a note, "This vest held a hero’s courage. Now it holds hope for another." The next day, a nurse called. "A young man signed up for dog training today. He wore the vest."
I don’t fix the world. I just read the ads no one else sees.
I’ve placed 123 "free" things back into the world, cribs for grieving mothers, chairs for lonely hearts, bicycles for broken boys. Not as charity. As witnesses. Proof that what we love never truly dies. It waits in the newspaper, in the closet, in the heart of a stranger, for someone to say, "I see your pain. Let me carry it with you."
Today, 17 shelters and senior centers have "Harriet’s Corner" a shelf for donated items with handwritten notes about the love they carry. A retired reporter wrote, "We measure a life by what’s sold. Harriet measures it by what’s given away."
The greatest kindness isn’t in grand gestures. It’s in noticing the "free to good home" ads in the hearts around us, and becoming the home they need."
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By Grace Jenkins