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The New LOLgbtq Kate & Ariel • theNewLOL(gbtq) • late-onset le****ns navigating new-to-LGBTQ life together

At more than 630 pages, The Calamity Club is not a quick read. But somehow, I never wanted it to end.Written by Kathryn ...
06/14/2026

At more than 630 pages, The Calamity Club is not a quick read. But somehow, I never wanted it to end.

Written by Kathryn Stockett, best known for The Help, this long-awaited novel proves she still has an incredible gift for creating unforgettable characters and transporting readers to another time and place.

Set in Depression-era Mississippi, the story follows three women whose lives couldn’t be more different: Meg, an eleven-year-old orphan who has learned not to trust anyone; Birdie, a fiercely independent woman trying to help her struggling family; and Charlie, a woman who has lost almost everything and is running out of options. When their paths intersect, they become part of an unlikely sisterhood determined to take control of their own futures in a world that gives women very little power.

What makes this book special isn’t the plot alone - it’s the characters. Stockett has a gift for creating women who are flawed, funny, stubborn, and unforgettable.

The book tackles poverty, hypocrisy, class divides, family loyalty, and the limited choices available to women during the Great Depression, but it never feels preachy. At its core, it’s a story about resilience and what can happen when underestimated women decide they’re done accepting the lives others (the patriarchy!) have chosen for them.

I’ve had a lot more time to read lately than I expected to have this year, and this was exactly the kind of book I needed - hopeful, funny, heartbreaking, and ultimately transformative.

Five stars. One of those rare novels that completely pulls you into another world and leaves you thinking about its characters long after you’ve finished the last page.

📚 Purchased from my favorite local bookstore, Bookstore Of Glen Ellyn

Three things that made me smile this week:1. Sitting on the porch with the cats on a cool morning after the storms had p...
06/13/2026

Three things that made me smile this week:

1. Sitting on the porch with the cats on a cool morning after the storms had passed. The air felt cleaner, the birds were animated, and for a little while everything was just...quiet again in my head.

2. An evening spent with some of the moms from Lucas’s class. It’s funny how your kids start out as the connection, and somewhere along the way, you realize you’ve built friendships with people who have been alongside you through field trips, basketball games, school projects, and all the other moments that make up childhood.

3. Listening to Gracie Abrams’ “Hit the Wall” on repeat and absolutely scream-singing it in the car. Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is stop pretending you’re fine, turn the volume up, and let a song say the things you’re still trying to figure out how to put into words.

The big moments get most of the attention, but this week reminded me that a lot of joy lives in the small ones.

I knew Greenville, SC was supposed to be nice. I wasn’t prepared for just how beautiful it would be.A downtown built aro...
06/12/2026

I knew Greenville, SC was supposed to be nice. I wasn’t prepared for just how beautiful it would be.

A downtown built around a waterfall. Trails winding along the river. Flowers and landscaping that somehow look like they belong in a magazine. Restaurants tucked into every corner. Live music. Public art. And an evening spent watching free Shakespeare in the park under the trees.

It’s the kind of place that feels intentionally designed to slow you down and remind you to look around.

From Falls Park to the Swamp Rabbit Trail, every turn seemed to reveal something worth stopping for. Add in incredible food, perfect weather, and a community that clearly takes pride in its city, and it’s easy to see why so many people fall in love with Greenville.

Turns out the hype was justified.

We’ll be back! ✈️

City of Greenville Gay Greenville Off The Grid Greenville®️

*”The earth has music for those who listen.”* — ShakespeareI knew Greenville, SC was supposed to be nice. I wasn’t prepa...
06/12/2026

*”The earth has music for those who listen.”* — Shakespeare

I knew Greenville, SC was supposed to be nice. I wasn’t prepared for just how beautiful it would be.

A downtown built around a waterfall. Trails winding along the river. Flowers and landscaping that somehow look like they belong in a magazine. Restaurants tucked into every corner. Live music. Public art. And an evening spent watching free Shakespeare in the park under the trees.

It’s the kind of place that feels intentionally designed to slow you down and remind you to look around.

From Falls Park to the Swamp Rabbit Trail, every turn seemed to reveal something worth stopping for. Add in incredible food, perfect weather, and a community that clearly takes pride in its city, and it’s easy to see why so many people fall in love with Greenville.

We’ll be back! ✈️ 

WeekendGetaway FindYourFalls City of Greenville Off The Grid Greenville®️ Gay Greenville

06/12/2026

This song needs no real introduction, but Brandi nailed it anyway: “I’m gonna sing you a cover. And it’s either the funniest song ever written or the most genius.”

🎤 moment: Brandi Carlile • Robyn’s “Call Your Girlfriend” • Peace Center Greenville SC • 6.6.2026

Probably my favorite Brandi cover ever. Definitely on Team “Genius” here …how about you?

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️One unexpected benefit of being laid off? I’ve had a lot more time to read.My latest book was *Girl’s Girl* by S...
06/11/2026

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

One unexpected benefit of being laid off? I’ve had a lot more time to read.

My latest book was *Girl’s Girl* by Sonia Feldman, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. Feldman perfectly captures the intensity of female friendships and all the joy, confusion, loyalty, and heartbreak that can come with them. Reading it took me right back to being a teenager and reminded me that many of us have probably had one or two friendships that felt as consuming and important as any romantic relationship...or maybe that’s just those of us who turned out gay. 🤣

Feldman does an excellent job portraying the blurry line between friendship, admiration, and love, while also exploring how young women shape their identities through their closest relationships. Mina’s story feels authentic and emotionally honest, and the summer setting adds a layer of nostalgia that makes the book easy to sink into.

If you’ve ever looked back on an intense friendship and realized just how much it shaped who you became, *Girl’s Girl* will likely resonate.

And if you’re local and looking to pick up a copy, do yourself a favor and support The Bookstore of Glen Ellyn. Independent bookstores make communities better, and ours is a gem ❤️

Hi. Ariel here. 👋I’ve officially taken over Kate’s Instagram account for the foreseeable future.Why? Because thanks to a...
06/08/2026

Hi. Ariel here. 👋

I’ve officially taken over Kate’s Instagram account for the foreseeable future.

Why? Because thanks to an unexpected (and very involuntary) sabbatical from the corporate world, I suddenly have time for things like taking pictures, noticing sunsets, and appreciating weekends instead of just recovering from workweeks.

This weekend, we escaped to Greenville, SC, and honestly, it was exactly what I needed. Good food, long walks, a beautiful downtown, waterfalls, bookstores, and a few days where my brain finally stopped running a hundred miles an hour.

And then there was the real reason for the trip: seeing Brandi Carlile perform solo at the Peace Center. Just Brandi, a guitar, a piano, and 2,000 people hanging on every word. It felt less like a concert and more like spending an evening with a storyteller who somehow knows exactly what you needed to hear.

The last couple of weeks have been a lot. But Greenville, and that show in particular, was a reminder that healing doesn’t always happen in big dramatic moments. Sometimes it’s a weekend away, a walk by the river, a great meal, and a song that hits a little differently than it did before.

Anyway, thanks for letting me borrow the account. Kate will probably reclaim it shortly and return you to your regularly scheduled content.

— Ariel

06/08/2026

Sometimes your favorite songs just hit different 🥹❤️‍🔥

We’ve been beyond privileged to see perform at multiple bucket-list venues in multiple states and multiple countries … but at every single show, there’s always a song I hear live that feels like I’ve never heard it before that moment.

The intimate acoustic performance this weekend at was one of my favorite Brandi experiences so far (…swear I don’t say that after every single show !)

It was raw, genuine, heartfelt and healing. How Brandi shines best.❤️‍🔥 This solo version of “The Eye” brought me to tears. Even missing its traditional three-part harmony with the , it was magic from the opening chords.

more showstopper moments to come 🎶

Happy Pride ❤️‍🔥🧡💛💚🩵💙💜💗We’re quieter here than we used to be, but we’re still here and still q***r and still showing up ...
06/02/2026

Happy Pride ❤️‍🔥🧡💛💚🩵💙💜💗

We’re quieter here than we used to be, but we’re still here and still q***r and still showing up for our community 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

Pride is family photos that don’t need explaining. It’s seeing couples like ours in books, on screens, and in the world around us. It’s the freedom to show up as ourselves and the joy of watching our children grow up knowing they belong no matter how they express themselves. No pressure — no judgment.

It’s history, resilience, community, celebration, and the people who came before us and made this life possible.

For our two-mom family, Pride is both ordinary and extraordinary—the everyday moments of school events, bedtime hugs and family dinners, and the simple fact that we get to live those moments openly and with love. As two late-life le****ns, we will NEVER take that for granted. It still feels extraordinary to be here.

The rainbow whirlwind of Pride month starts now 🌈

Never forget ❤️‍🩹🤍💙For a school assignment, our 7th grader interviewed me about where I was on 9/11. Like I don’t rememb...
09/12/2025

Never forget ❤️‍🩹🤍💙

For a school assignment, our 7th grader interviewed me about where I was on 9/11. Like I don’t remember every detail like it was yesterday.

I was at home, by myself, my off day from community college classes. I woke up late in an empty house. I turned the TV on … and the world changed in an instant. There was smoke and fire and chaos in New York City. I didn’t even know what I was seeing yet. While I watched live, the second plane hit the second tower. Later, the towers fell. People jumped. Our hearts collectively broke.

That evening, I started a new job as a cashier at the grocery store on the late-night shift. I couldn’t believe the world could be ending but I still had to go to an hourly job. Some things don’t stop even when it feels like life as we know it is. Some people came in panicked, stocking up on food and bottled water. Others came in, eyes swollen and red from crying. Maybe they were waiting on news from a loved one in New York. Maybe they were just scared that we could be next. It was oddly quiet. No one wanted to make eye contact. No one felt safe that night. But we spoke more kindly to each other that night. We gave one another grace. There was an implicit understanding — we knew we couldn’t go back to life as it was before.

The last question Easton asked me was: How do you think we should remember 9/11?

My answer was, “Exactly this. We should tell our stories, so the memories live on even when the people who were there are gone. That’s how we ensure we’ll never forget.”

I’ll always remember. And through our shared experiences, I hope the next generations will too. ❤️‍🔥

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