07/26/2025
Wisdom for Choosing a Husband
Because Love Alone Is Not
Enough
Let’s get real:
Choosing who you marry is one of the most important decisions you will ever make in your entire life. And for many women, it has also been one of the most painful ones.
Maybe no one told you that the wrong man can delay your destiny. That falling in love with potential can rob you of peace. That sometimes, being “in love” isn’t the same as being safe, valued, or seen.
This book isn’t about shaming
your past. It’s about sharpening your future.
Because you can be smart, beautiful, successful, and still find yourself tangled in a relationship
that quietly destroys you.
Not every heartbreak is loud. Not every bad relationship is obvious at first. And not every manwho says “I love you” is capable of loving you in a way that honors your soul. We live in a world that teaches women how to look good, but rarely how to choose well.
You’ve probably been taught how
to catch his eye, how to make him want you, how to “keep” him
interested. But have you ever been taught how to evaluate the kind
of man he is beneath the surface?
Have you ever been taught how to listen beyond the butterflies?
Have you ever been taught
how to recognize the difference between chemistry and compatibility, between charisma and character?
That’s where wisdom comes in.
Love Without Wisdom Is Dangerous
Let’s be honest. Some of us
were never taught to choose men through the lens of wisdom.
Most women were taught to choose through loneliness, pressure, fear, fantasy, or attraction.
We were told things like:
* “At least he has a job.”
* “Nobody’s perfect.”
* “You’re not getting any younger.”
* “He’s a good man… deep down.”
But let me ask you—how deep do you have to dig to find something good in someone who’s already causing you pain on the surface?
Wisdom says: "Don't confuse
what you feel with what’s real."
Discernment says: "If you
have to shrink to keep him, he's not your future."
Experience says: "You can’t
change him with love, loyalty, or sacrifice." And truth says: "The right man won’t make you question your worth."
This book is about waking up—not with guilt, but with clarity.
It’s about choosing your next season with your eyes wide open. Because you don’t marry someone’s potential—you marry their patterns.
The High Price of Ignoring Red
Flags
Every woman reading this has
either met, dated, or married a man she wished she hadn’t.
Some of you stayed too long.
Some of you saw the signs but kept hoping he’d change. Some of you thought being patient was a virtue—but all you did was suffer silently.
You ignored the red flags because he said the right words. You stayed because leaving felt like
failure.
You hoped because you believed love should be unconditional. But what about your peace?
What about your purpose?
What about your voice, your future, your joy?
This is the reality: The wrong man doesn’t just break your heart. He can break your focus. Your
confidence. Your momentum.
Your trust in yourself.
This is why wisdom must speak
louder than desire.
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