Totally The Bomb

07/11/2025

No eggs, no milk... how is it even cake? Don't care it's delicious.

Crazy to make a cake with no eggs or dairy? Only until you taste it!

07/10/2025

Okay but these are really, really cute.

Dragonflies are one of my favorite insects, they beautiful and not scary at all. They speed around from here to there and sometimes you can catch them settled for a moment to snap a photo

07/10/2025

You can’t make everyone happy. So why not focus on making yourself happy?

I have the coolest therapist. When you leave you get to choose a mental health themed sticker and a dumdum, and she has plenty of fidget toys to play with in her office, but also

07/10/2025

It is so allowed.

The thing about my job is that I spend a lot of time in random places writing on my phone or my iPad, maybe sitting in the corner of a random diner, or on the

07/10/2025

We talk about heartbreak, but why don’t we talk about the kind that comes from losing a friend?

I’m very much a best friend person. I’d rather have a few really great friends than a ton of acquaintances. I don’t know if I’m an introvert or an extrovert because like— I love going

07/10/2025

07/10/2025

Get you this kind of friend.

I have a friend that lets me wander aimlessly behind them. When we go to a store, they know what we are getting, when we are at an event, they have my escape route all

07/10/2025

At this point, my main hobby is collecting lists of hobbies I might try someday.

I have a major issue. I spent my twenties gaming with dudes in random chat rooms and kicking butt at Mario Kart all while flirting my heart out. You see, I didn't really hang out

07/10/2025

Some people post a dramatic announcement. I just slid mine into a newsletter.

Being online all out and loud means a lot of times, even when your life isn’t sunshine and rainbows— you need it to be.  I stopped working as much with companies and stuff just because

07/10/2025

What happens if they only liked the version of me that doesn’t exist forever?

I keep getting asked the question— did things go south in your marriage when you lost the weight?  Yeah. They did. It wasn’t the beginning of things being over, there were signs long before that,  but