Justin V. Gates-Author

Justin V. Gates-Author Author, Mentor, and Content Creator.

"Love and Connection: The Forces that Hold us Together" with Special Guests Soluna Mind and Body! Episode 78 of the New ...
11/18/2025

"Love and Connection: The Forces that Hold us Together" with Special Guests Soluna Mind and Body! Episode 78 of the New Ashla Podcast!

The New Ashla Podcast: Embracing the Shadow through Self Mastery · Episode

"Synchronicity- How to Know When You're in Alignment" Episode 78 of the New Ashla Podcast!
11/13/2025

"Synchronicity- How to Know When You're in Alignment" Episode 78 of the New Ashla Podcast!

The New Ashla Podcast: Embracing the Shadow through Self Mastery · Episode

"The Power of True Service" Episode 76 of the New Ashla Podcast!
11/11/2025

"The Power of True Service" Episode 76 of the New Ashla Podcast!

"The Power of True Service" Episode 76 of the New Ashla Podcast!

https://open.spotify.com/episode/1jzCCZj0gMGKSDzwYu2RSh?si=jpdbrVkSQRi1eFsNJxjpkg

In this episode of the New Ashla Podcast, Justin V. Gates and Michael Perry explore the concept of service, challenging the common misconception that it equates to self-sacrifice. They emphasize that true service involves small acts of kindness and does not require one to give until they are empty. They also highlight the importance of understanding the nuances of helping others and the idea of equivalent exchange in service.

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Takeaways
A lot of people misunderstand service as self-sacrifice.
Service is not about giving until you're empty.
Helping can be as simple as picking up a neighbor's paper.
True service is not always equivalent exchange.
Service can involve tiny acts of kindness.
It's not about giving your last for someone else.
Yes when you mean no, that's not true service.
Equivalent exchange is rarely the case in service.
Service is often misunderstood in society.
Small acts can have a significant impact.

Keywords
service, self-sacrifice, equivalent exchange, helping others, community support

"The Shadow of Attachment- Rewriting the Patterns We Don’t See" Episode 75 of the New Ashla Podcast!
11/07/2025

"The Shadow of Attachment- Rewriting the Patterns We Don’t See" Episode 75 of the New Ashla Podcast!

In this episode of the New Ashla Podcast, Michael Perry and Justin Gates discuss the significance of understanding attachment styles and the journey towards healing and self-awareness. They emphasize that individuals are not defined by their attachment styles but are instead the awareness that can c...

The Black Sheep: Catalyst for Change in Family Dynamics. Episode 74 of the New Ashla Podcast
11/05/2025

The Black Sheep: Catalyst for Change in Family Dynamics. Episode 74 of the New Ashla Podcast

The New Ashla Podcast: Embracing the Shadow through Self Mastery · Episode

"The Wounds We Mistake for Love" Episode 73 of the New Ashla Podcast: Embracing the Shadow through Self Mastery!
10/31/2025

"The Wounds We Mistake for Love" Episode 73 of the New Ashla Podcast: Embracing the Shadow through Self Mastery!

The New Ashla Podcast: Embracing the Shadow through Self Mastery · Episode

"Stop Living Halfway: The Dangers of Half Measures" Episode 72 of the New Ashla Podcast: Embracing the Shadow through Se...
10/28/2025

"Stop Living Halfway: The Dangers of Half Measures" Episode 72 of the New Ashla Podcast: Embracing the Shadow through Self Mastery!

The New Ashla Podcast: Embracing the Shadow through Self Mastery · Episode

Are They a Narcissist — or Just Hurt? The Real Difference No One Talks About Episode 71 of the New Ashla Podcast.
10/23/2025

Are They a Narcissist — or Just Hurt? The Real Difference No One Talks About Episode 71 of the New Ashla Podcast.

The New Ashla Podcast · Episode

"Confronting the Monsters Within: The Path of Healing" Episode 70 of the New Ashla Podcast.
10/22/2025

"Confronting the Monsters Within: The Path of Healing" Episode 70 of the New Ashla Podcast.

The New Ashla Podcast · Episode

"Tools of the Mystic With Allyson Perry-Turner" Episode 69 of the New Ashla Podcast!
10/16/2025

"Tools of the Mystic With Allyson Perry-Turner" Episode 69 of the New Ashla Podcast!

The New Ashla Podcast · Episode

"Everyday Ritual: The Hidden Power of Presence in Our Habits" Episode 68 of the New Ashla Podcast!
10/14/2025

"Everyday Ritual: The Hidden Power of Presence in Our Habits" Episode 68 of the New Ashla Podcast!

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"The Bridge Between Pain and Peace: The Art of Forgiveness With Courtney DeMatteo" Episode 67 of the New Ashla Podcast!
10/09/2025

"The Bridge Between Pain and Peace: The Art of Forgiveness With Courtney DeMatteo" Episode 67 of the New Ashla Podcast!

"The Bridge Between Pain and Peace: The Art of Forgiveness With Courtney DeMatteo" Episode 67 of the New Ashla Podcast!

https://open.spotify.com/episode/4rte0cfZ3Noi0FH6avituU?si=bclPuAGRTEONERJmrlHPNQ

Free Gifts
Radical Forgiveness worksheet
https://radicalforgiveness.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/Radical-Forgiveness-Worksheet-with-Radical-Acceptance-June-2016.pdf

Cord Release (Gift from Courtney)
https://youtu.be/22jnYODBEWA?si=JaW30Wd5hO0uijnd

Links to Courtney
http://courtneydematteo.com/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61559586538820
https://www.instagram.com/courtneyd.life.alchemist/

In this enlightening conversation, Michael Perry, Justin Gates, and Courtney DeMatteo delve into the transformative power of forgiveness. They explore the misconceptions surrounding forgiveness, the detrimental effects of holding onto resentment, and the importance of vulnerability in the healing process. The discussion emphasizes that forgiveness is not about excusing others but about reclaiming one's own power and freedom. Through personal anecdotes and insights, the speakers highlight the connection between forgiveness, mental health, and personal growth, ultimately guiding listeners towards a path of healing and self-empowerment. In this enlightening conversation, the speakers delve into the multifaceted nature of forgiveness, exploring its significance in personal growth and emotional healing. They discuss the importance of reframing anxiety, the practice of forgiveness as a skill, and the necessity of self-compassion. The dialogue emphasizes taking inventory of relationships, recognizing triggers, and the transformative power of forgiveness in overcoming trauma. The E3 program is highlighted as a valuable resource for those seeking deeper understanding and healing. Ultimately, the conversation serves as a reminder that forgiveness is a journey, not a destination, and that self-awareness and practice are key to reclaiming one's peace and power.

Takeaways
Forgiveness is essential for personal freedom.
Holding onto resentment harms both mental and physical health.
True forgiveness is a trade in perspective.
Forgiveness is not about excusing others' behavior.
The act of forgiving is for your own healing, not for the other person.
Resentment can lead to physical ailments like arthritis.
Forgiveness allows you to reclaim your power.
Being vulnerable is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Forgiveness can transform your relationships.
Awareness of your patterns is crucial for healing. Forgiveness is a practice that requires effort and intention.
Reframing anxiety can empower individuals to change their narratives.
Self-compassion is crucial in the journey of forgiveness.
Taking inventory of relationships helps identify areas needing forgiveness.
Forgiveness does not mean forgetting; it means reclaiming power.
Healing from trauma is possible through forgiveness and self-awareness.
Recognizing triggers is essential for personal growth.
The E3 program offers valuable tools for emotional healing.
Forgiveness is a journey that involves continuous practice.
You are worthy of peace, love, and freedom.

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