12/10/2025
The Midlands Morning Show š¬
"I need some help here. Iāve been engaged for almost a year and a half. My fiancĆ© keeps saying he wants to give me a āproperā wedding, so we have to wait until we have the money. We havenāt even picked a date yet, and Iāve told him that it doesnāt matter to me, but he insists on waiting.
Recently, I met a new guy at my office whoās really cute. Heās kind, a gentleman, and I get genuinely excited when heās around. My heart even flutters when he texts me. In full honesty, I did send him a photo of myself in cute workout clothes before heading to the gym. I was upfront with him about being engaged, but I also shared my frustration about the slow wedding planning. Heās been really understanding and has even said things like, āif you were my fiancĆ©, I wouldnāt wait!ā
Iāve never had a reason to doubt my fiancĆ©ās love for me, but now Iām beginning to have doubts after meeting this new guy. Are these thoughts something I should take seriously, or is it just pre-wedding nerves? I know this makes me look bad, and Iām wrestling with that too. I just want to know if anyone else has been in this situation and can offer some advice."
-Jenna, Irmo