07/23/2025
If you or a family member or friend are a serious musician, this post is for you.
Should serious music students take a break from practicing. . . ?
A parent recently came to me very concerned.
Their teen is working with me on college applications for music schools, but he wants to take a break from practicing when they go on a family vacation.
The parents want to make arrangements for him to have practice time, since he's preparing for college auditions and has big goals. They are worried that he might be losing his passion for the instrument, and wonder if he should consider pursuing a different field.
I told them to take the vacation and leave the instrument at home.
The late, great, Ed Gobrecht – bassoonist, conductor, educator, master inspirer – once horrified a group of undergraduate music majors at Ithaca College by recommending that we all take a month off from our instrument every summer.
His point was that no other professionals practice every day for their entire lives, and everyone needs a break in order to avoid boredom, stagnation, and injury. Professional athletes take a break in the off-season. Surgeons, lawyers, and engineers take vacation time. Writers and artists take time off to seek inspiration. Why should musicians be compelled to never take a break, or feel guilty for leaving their instrument at home when going on vacation?
“But, my tone will go out the window!” Or, “I’ll lose my technique!!”
Gobrecht said that it will all come back and will very likely end up being better than before. Why? Because the break was refreshing, invigorating, perhaps even inspiring. And, returning to your instrument will feel like reuniting with an old friend.
One month before taking graduate school auditions, I traveled to Mexico for a week with no flute. I planned my practicing prior to the trip so that I would be ready to audition before I left. I planned a week of embouchure exercises and regrouping when I returned, and that gave me three weeks to polish my auditions. I returned refreshed, excited, and on a mission to have some amazing auditions – then got accepted to my top two schools.
So, my amazing young colleague, do it. Leave your instrument at home. Enjoy time with family at the lake. Go hiking with friends or roll in some sand. Eat a fancy meal and visit a museum.
Give yourself a few days of not being a musician.
Then, pick the thing back up. You will be excited to get back to work, and your practice time will take on a whole new enthusiastic meaning.