08/11/2025
๐๐๐ถ๐น๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ง๐ฟ๐๐๐ ๐ช๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐ฌ๐ผ๐'๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ก๐ฒ๐ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฎ๐ด๐ฒ๐ฟ
Your first 90 days in a new managerial post set the tone for months or years to come. Whatโs the most important thing for you to accomplish in those 90 days?
In my book ๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด๐ฉ๐ช๐ฑ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐๐ณ๐ถ๐ดt, I argue that your foremost task is to develop your teamโs trust of both you and your leadership.
Yes, itโs essential to build faith in your competence during the first 90 days. Demonstrated competence, however, is a component of trust-building.
Moreover, if we put too much focus on proving our competence in a new role, we risk coming across quickly as a know-it-all. And people donโt instinctively trust know-it-alls.
Too much emphasis on competence can thus impede trust, not foster it.If you are doing the proper things to encourage trust, your competence will soon become evident. You wonโt have to go out of your way to demonstrate it.
Three things are especially important in establishing early trust in your leadership.
๐ญ. L๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐ด
Spend time understanding the organizationโs rhythms, its pain points, and the aspirations of its people. Ask questions to gain perspective. Take note of what people identify as concerns, but donโt feel compelled to offer immediate fixes.
Ironically, we build trust faster by listening well than by having a ready solution for every problem.
๐ฎ. B๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐๐๐ถ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ
Make it easy for people to engage you in conversation. Practice what I call โstrategic mingling.โ
That is, make regular opportunities to circulate among your people, not just to shake hands and learn names. Instead, ask questions which demonstrate genuine interest in each person individually.
Trust grows when people feel personally valued, heard, and understood. Use strategic mingling to convey that message in every conversation.
๐ฏ. B๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ป๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ผ๐น๐น๐ผ๐-๐ง๐ต๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ด๐ต
The credibility of your word is one of the most pivotal trust-builders. Especially early on, be extremely conscientious in following through with what you promise to do.
Even small commitments matter. What seems small to you may be emotionally significant for people to whom you make the promise.
Thus, failure to keep such promises risks more than their disappointment. It risks inflicting pain on them emotionally. As a rule of thumb, the more emotionally hurtful a disappointment, the most lasting the damage that it does to trust.
If youโve recently stepped into a new role, what has helped you build trust with your team? Letโs share ideas.
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