Dating and The Big D

10/06/2024

Check out the latest blog entry from Maxwell Anders at Dating and the Dating and The Big D.

I am eternally evolving. I am not the same man today that I was yesterday to the man I will be tomorrow. This is true in a manner of speaking biologically as my cells divide, live and die each day, and this is true how each day my central processing unit (brain) processes the days events through REM...

09/30/2024

Catcalling. We are all familiar with catcalling. Someone walks by and s*xual "compliments" are loudly uttered. I use "compliments" because catcalling is often defended as displays of sincere, albeit obnoxious romantic attention. We have either been witnesses, recipients or givers of catcalling. It h...

09/24/2024

New blog post at Dating and The Big D

A couple of weeks ago, I woke up early one morning and found I was out of milk. I decided to head over to my neighborhood grocery store and pick up a gallon.I walked up to the sliding glass doors only to see that I had arrived ten minutes too early. Suddenly, a handsome guy walked up to me and I ask...

09/18/2024

Check out my latest entries on Dating and The Big D as my co-host STVN and I work to bring back our podcast next month.

I used to think dating myself meant being single for the sake of being single or because I had not been asked out in a while, I would announce online, on my podcast or to myself that I was dating myself. I would then proceed to take myself out to a nice tapas restaurant or art house film and envy th...

09/14/2024

https://www.datingandthebigd.com/post/facing-myself-and-my-motives-with-my-big-d

Oof! This is an uncomfortable entry. I was quite s*xually active a few months ago. If I am honest, I was very s*xually active a few months ago. I eventually took some time to pause and reflect on my motives. I asked myself what was the motive for all this sometimes great and sometimes not so great s...

09/09/2024

"Single on Purpose" by John Kim is the current book Maxwell Anders is listening to for

08/27/2024

https://www.datingandthebigd.com/post/the-knee-jerk-reaction-to-hookup

Yesterday, I was on one of the social media apps. You know. It was the one that recently changed its name to a single letter of the alphabet. In my inbox was a message from a hottie that I had hit on and forgot about apparently. He was hot as efffffff and wanted hook up for some hot fun. I was even....

08/26/2024

For you, the first blog entry in two years for Dating and The Big D.

The show has been on hiatus for about two years. My new co-host STVN and I are scheduled to start recording next weekend. Until then we are uploading all the old past episodes again starting this weekend.I had an intimate session with Blaine recently. He was this fellow whom I have had a crush on fo...